Is it normal i suck at making friends ?

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Hi, I don't know if I have been this bad at making friends for my whole life but lately it is worst then ever ! I simply suck at talking to people and smiling,laughing,approving...and being charismatic in general ! I'm not a serious person at all, i'm kind and i like to joke around but i don't bond with people easily. For me it's really hard to go hang out with people that i consider acquaintance ,it drives me nuts ! I'm shy and completely awkward to talk with. Unless i'm drunk but when the night is over i still become the shy awkward girl again. I try to go out and meet people but it's like i'm repelling them for some reason. I know it's how i am because some say they talk to me because i am cute. But then i'm the one who don't want to be flirted so i end up alone again... I'm tired to be so lonely and i'm trying to understand what I do wrong. Is it normal ? I can't be the only one like that.

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  • volvonut84
    9 years ago

    Try sucking before you exchange names. Remember to not use teeth and you will have friends.

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  • kateykins
    10 years ago

    Making friends is hard work, especially when you get older and are less tolerant of people's bs. Also without school, it's hard to get out there and meet people if you're naturally shy. I would suggest just trying to get out there in small steps and try to be confident. The more confident I act about myself,the more people seem to notice me and approve.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Try sucking a few of your friends off and they will become better friends if you are good at it. Swallow too!

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    There are many like, very normal, and if you hang with the right people, that are doing the things you enjoy. Then making friends will come easier

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