Is it normal i still think about this girl?

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There's this girl, when I've met her she was just 15 and I was just 18.. She was the first person in my life to show me affection and I fell in love with her, she lives pretty close to me and it started with a kiss on her cheek, she asked me if she could do something and I replied: Yeah, sure.. but I was afraid I scared her with the little cheek kiss.. I didn't, she kissed me full on the mouth and I've never kissed before.. After some months she got a friend to make a fake facebook account and she started flirting with that "person". She wanted to break up but didn't want to hurt me, anyways, she broke up with me after a while... It torn me apart and it still hurts after 2,5 years... I've had another girlfriend in the meanwhile, but that didn't work out, I keep thinking about this girl.. I hope anyone has a suggestion on what to do, because I feel like I can't live without her... I believe the fact that I was really serious about me and her tore us apart and that she just wanted a "boy" to have fun with for a bit.. but I really like this girl, she blocked me everywhere but a friend of hers told me that she got really angry that she failed to remove me from her MSN messenger.. I really would like to turn back time and stay friends.. but I really think that I'm truly in love with this girl, feelings have changed after 2,5 years, it doesn't hurt me that badly anymore.. but it keeps running through my head and her friend tells me to let her go, but she also says that I would be the perfect boyfriend for that girl, but that my ex doesn't see it and that it's her loss etc.. If you reply I would be really thankful..

- James (Not my real name)

Yes, but try and fix the contact 11
No, try and fix the contact 2
No, try and forget her 27
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  • Marisol
    11 years ago

    2.5 years is a long time. I think that it is time to forget about her. She blocked you from everywhere. It is obvious that she does not want anything to do with you from what you have told us.

    That being said, even though you might be perfect for her, she might not be perfect for you no matter how much you think about her. Save yourself from further pain by living your life without her. It is not worth it wasting your thoughts and your time on her when deep down you know that this won't go anywhere.

    Get to know other girls. You are young, look around, I am sure that there are other girls who you can fall in love with. It might seem impossible at first, but trust me, it is possible! Just, be careful next time. Don't fall too hard as you have for this girl. Make sure that you know what you want and be sure to let the next girl know where you would like the relationship to go.

    And don't be scared to take the next step. I believe that those first steps are always the hardest to take. Therefore, get over her and start living life.

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    • philips107s1992
      11 years ago

      Thanks for the reply, although I´m not sure I´ll be able to forget this one...

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      • Marisol
        11 years ago

        No problem. I wish you all the best.

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  • peterrabbyt4
    7 years ago

    Slit your wrists.

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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    I have a similar story to this, and every once in a while I still think about her for a little bit. And I really wonder what she's doing right now, even though I haven't seen or spoken to her in over 3 years.

    But part of growing up is understanding that not everything is meant to be. You just have to move on.

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  • lily268
    11 years ago

    I have a similar story and all I can tell you is time will help you forget her. Good luck :)

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    • philips107s1992
      11 years ago

      Thanks although I´m sure if I can :(

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  • ANGLOGEEZER
    11 years ago

    You're lucky to be done with that dame. Suppose she wanted to marry you and you agreed, then had children, a dreadful divorce and have to pay alimony, child support and hire lawyers. Perhaps you ought consider joining the United States Navy. I did in 1961 and have never regretted it.

    Old bachelor.

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