Is it normal i still miss him but can't be with him?

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I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago. A lot of things contributed to the break up. I was getting bored with him and I felt that he didn't love me. Although I never confronted him about this, which I extremely regret since he did sound a bit disappointed when I broke up with him.
I am also moving away in a few weeks and we thought it wouldn't work, even though we will only be an hour apart. I am moving away to uni. I was planning on giving it all up for him. I didn't really care about the future as long as it was with him but he wouldn't have any of it.
I highly enjoyed my single life after. Being able to get guilt free attention off men but now it's boring. All what they want is one night stands and I'm starting to feel unloved and disrespected. But I keep having one night stands just for that short time of feeling like someone actually wants to be with me.
I miss the life me and my ex together. I keep wondering that maybe we could have worked it out. I am dying to contact him, to tell him I regret it all but I don't know what his reaction will be. It may be unfair on him because when it comes down to it, it may not work out between us due to me moving away and him having to work long hours. It's killing me we haven't talked in months. I don't know what he's doing. He never goes on facebook anymore. I know he hardly see's his friends anymore. It kills me to think that he could be getting depressed and he's all alone. I am too really.
Is this all normal? Should I feel like this after breaking off a relationship? Sorry if it's long. I just feel like shit.

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    Contact him and know what's he's doing and stuff..If he too feels same as you then you'll know..don't wait coz you'll regret it later saying what if..

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  • sexystar
    11 years ago

    You should tell him how you feel before you loss that chance of telling him (before its too late, before he finds someone else) and you'll regret it more.

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  • stephaniedawnn
    11 years ago

    Honestly I would get in contact with him again, and just tell him how you feel.

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  • the_misty_haze
    11 years ago

    If you don't talk to him and tell him everything you feel, if you don't follow your heart instead of your brain which is telling you it might not work out because of distance, you will wonder what if for the rest of your life. I know from experience.

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