Is it normal i still have a crush on the same boy after 5 years??

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I keep having a recurring dream about my crush, where I ask him why he didn't ask me out(cause we both liked each other), but in one of my dreams he told me he didn't know why, but lately in the dreams he avoids answering the question. I don't even see him anymore, but I still have these strong feelings for him. How do I make it stop? I'm 18, just letting you know.

Yes it's normal 19
No it's not normal. 3
The dream is telling you something 11
You're in love with him. 10
You'll get over it soon enough. 7
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  • Aaron_Pablo
    11 years ago

    I totally understand you. I had a crush on a girl who went in high school with me, at first we didnt really liked each other, but then when we were getting to know each other better we started to become real good friends. Then i stardet to have very strong feelings for here, i didnt know if she felt the same about me. The only thing was she moved to a difrent place. It really broke my heart going to school knowing she will not be there anymore. After that i had frequent dreams about us being togehter and it was very beatiful, it made me thing that she maybe had also feelings for me. Just a couple months ago we coincidentally met each other at a mall, and both of us acted like we dont know each other, that was really sad but after that my feelings for her went away. She changed i changed, she just wasnt the girl i used to love anymore. I heard that she is in a relationship know and am happy for her. But i never really had the chance to talk to her about us. And i also have the feeling that i never gonna love someone that much like i loved her. My advice to you, if you have the opportunity to talk with him about your feeling then DO IT. Trust me i didnt an i regret it until know (i just turned 19) Maybe he feels the same about you, But the only way and i really mean THE ONLY WAY to find out is to talk with him about that. Dont make the same mistake that i made. I will never find out if she had the same feeling that i had for her.

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    Ehhh, u get over it, at ur age people change alot in just a years time

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  • NiceKitty
    11 years ago

    Yeah, go for it.

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  • ScorpioDB
    11 years ago

    Just go out with him... I had a sudden crush on a girl after 4 years of not seeing each other. I asked her out, but it was not the same... She was totally different and my love was gone :D

    So try that and go out with him ;)

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