Is it normal i still care about my ex?

last week I found out that my ex had an accident, so I call him to see how he was doing and if he was ok or what
I call him and I felt pretty bad because we don't talk since september of last year I don't wanna lose him
I have a boyfriend now and I don't wanna tell him that I talked to my ex
I love my boyfriend and I know he will understand, but how can I say to him that I wanna be friends with my ex?
I don't want to get back with my ex but I still care about him
so, is it normal?

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82% Normal
Based on 34 votes (28 yes)
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  • thestocker

    i care about everyone ive been with too i even provide them with shelter in my cozy basement

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  • Memehoney

    Sometimes an ex is a person you don't want to delete out of your life and other times exes should be deleted. But I understand 100% my breakup with my ex was horrible but I still care for him. I'm not sure of his feelings but he always tries to come back into my life. Which is not a good thing considering our past. You may just enjoy having him around because he once was a big part of your life which is completely understandable. Nevertheless keeping this secret from your bf isn't a good thing it's seen guilty. Just let him know you spoke to ur ex to check up on him. I'm she'll understand your human if you didn't car your ex was in a bad car accident then I'd be worried. But dont stress over it ur intentions are good but let your bf know trust in a relationship is sacred and shouldn't be lost. Keep that in mind. :)

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  • kelili

    Why? Let the past in the past. I don't understand why people keep getting back at old stories - if he's your ex it means it hadn't work and I don't believe that you can be friend (real friendship) with someone you have been sexually involved

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