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I'm a heterosexual male and let me tell you a good majority of my problems originated from my attraction to females. I've had my heartbroken and I've lost my mind and done stupid things in the presence of attractive girls. I think my life would be so much easier if I had no one I was trying to impress.
A good woman will support you in whatever path you've set for yourself. Focus on that path and they will follow. Just don't mistake any girl worthy of being the source of your life's fulfillment.
I am a straight male as well and it seems that what I just read here was written by me. Sometimes I think that I would be happier and a much better person if I were not able to feel attracted be females. Do not worry. We have the same problem.
I feel your pain, man. But there is no way to make yourself asexual when you are not. Not even if you can't get it up. Having faith in womankind is hard, but it helps you in the long run. Jerk off to porn if you can. That helps too.
I'm sorry that you are one of the males that has been thrown away. I am one of them too.
Sometimes, I feel that way myself. People out there will hurt you. You will experience heartbreak. But that doesn't mean the end. I've been heartbroken so many times, and I've considered becoming asexual. But I know that there's someone out there for me just like there is somebody out there for you. You'll find somebody. True love is always around the corner. Best of luck, friend.
Well give it up .
At the end of the day, girls don't care about trying to impress. You're causing your own suffering
Anyone that sets out to impress another, will more often than not find themselves in two positions. Firstly, 'impressing' is short lived and mostly always comes across to the other as fake and hence, they become wary of you. Secondly, if one has a need to impress, then it shows a lack of something within because it is not natural. You have to figure out for yourself why you hav a need to impress and when you discover it.... you can stop it.
So, do you have self esteem issues ? Why do you feel the need to try and "impress" people ? To me, that's the sort of arrogant jack asses that feel that need to try and show off, or as you say, "impress" the girls. I bet you are probably about 5 ft 7 inches or so tall and probably have a big ass 4wheel drive truck y'all enough you need a step ladder to get in it. Or not. But the need to impress or show off comes from serious lack of self esteem. Your not happy with yourself for whatever reasons.
Its not all its cracked up to be. I am ace and sometimes wish I had those relationships and experiences and actually know what its like to love someone. I never will and I feel super alone because of it. It gets lonely.
Just be yourself then.
If your trying to impress girls, then fine. But you could just be yourself
And being yourself might attract girls