Is it normal i secretly sleep with other women?

I used to sleep with women for money on occasion when I was younger and needed the money.

Now, I am married, but about half a year ago, began doing this again.

My wife just thinks I'm working late and has no clue what I am really doing.

Is it normal to be married and sleep with other women too?

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26% Normal
Based on 68 votes (18 yes)
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Comments ( 32 )
  • Hotdogsaregross

    It's the male version of the escort post haha

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    • shhhh

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    • Lmao you are the only person who got it

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  • So you're a cunt?

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  • RoseIsabella

    As always, I hope you get caught.

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    • How come for a woman you ask what they would do if they get caught and advise they stop, but for a man you say you hope they get caught?

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      • RoseIsabella

        I personally hope all cheaters get caught!

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        • You always say you dont care about what gender when you're called out, but when left to your own devices we see the difference in what you say when its a boy or a girl.

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          • RoseIsabella

            You sound like you're obsessed with my opinions.

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            • I had a trauma and now have an irrational tendency to assume worse of the opposite gender too and you trigger me okayyyyyy?

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        • Ya but you didn't say that to the girl. Only men.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Who cares what I think, I'm just one Is It Normal member. What's the big deal, dude? Just get over it, and stop obsessing about me, it's very unbecoming behavior.

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  • fearful_soul

    do you love your wife or what?

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  • Dustyair

    I have three women inflated in my living room right now, and they never say a word ;)

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  • abbimini

    I mean, it's normal but...don't?

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  • jaystrong

    If you're making money while doing it you are working. Even still I am sure that's one of the top jobs no spouse wants you to do.

    I couldn't handle the guilt or worse - if someone had a disease and you end up giving that to your wife?

    As always I try to put myself in the other person's shoes.
    How would you feel if you found out your wife was giving out blowjobs on the side to make money? At what cost/price would that be worth to you?

    If I were you I would do some serious soul searching. You're married and there's plenty of other ways to make money. Is it really the money or do you just like cheating on your wife?

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  • THIS IS A TROLL POST

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  • Iszzy123

    Well you realized who you are question is do you what to change or keep living this life ?

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  • kingofthebigToe

    A Man-Whore

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  • jo8898

    Should be agreed upon. Sounds early for an open marriage.

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  • Ummitsme

    They pay you too? Your wife is so lucky. Just get single and rich playboy.

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  • Waste

    All that Cheating stuff is changing to,”What she(he) did to you last night”. We are changing to create fantasies and excitement about the moment our partners had with the other. It’s a turn On for many people hearing in details what and how happens.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Nope, for me it would be about excitement in anticipation of the moment the the spouse who's being cheated on throws a pot of scalding hot grits on the cheater and the piece of shit he or shit is cheating with. I wouldn't personally do it, because I wouldn't want to get arrested for injuring the two sub-human dirtbags. However, whenever I hear about bad things, even grave bodily harm, happening to cheaters and their scumbag/skank-ho lovers I smile quietly inside. I don't care what happens to people who lie, cheat or steal. I have no shame about my less than compassionate feelings for such people, because even under awful life circumstances I do not lie, cheat or steal.
      😝

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  • TheTypsySaiIor

    Yeah cheating spouses are super common. Moral judgements aside it's very normal.

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    • JonathanOo

      It may be common but it's not right. Your partner should know that you aren't satisfied with them And are seeking others

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