Is it normal i record my mother

Fair enough hypothesis, I'm very serious person by nature. The form of abuse in question is of the mental nature, manipulation, extreme fits of rage, shifting of responsibilities onto a 10 year, over dramatising issues to further influence the child.

My lil sister is mentally handicapped so she doesn't react as people would like who put others down. They feel bad and so they want a reaction from someone else. My sister doesn't give a reaction unless she starts crying and then my mother just goes ten times more. Then goes oh I am so sorry makes her believe it was her fault but it is ok cause mommy is here now and then ten minutes later "what the hell are you doing" or "I am going to kill your pets", or something breaks and suddenly the value goes up "oh those were your favourite, well too bad now I can't afford new ones and it really is too bad cause I wanted surprise you on your birthday and have it apart of your outfit". She even knows what she is doing and does these things on purpose to manipulate her she has demonstrated awareness of her mental ailment directly to me in the past and I walked out it was sickening. I never knew she was self-aware of it, I thought maybe she was bi-polar but no my mom is just a sad little girl herself that just wants a friend and everything to go how she wants it to go. She treats my sister like a slave, she did it to my eldest as well to the point she believed her duty as a child was to care for my mother. I was lucky enough to pull her out of it, I lost a lot but she gained a new lease on life and I want to do the same for the youngest. She is the sweetest thing ever and she has never acted out around me or anyone, she suffers from anxiety, she can't talk because of how they raised her, she has the potential of independence but they baby her and she my sister manipulates them so she doesn't have to learn. It is not a healthy environment as she thinks she can just do nothing, but what will happen is she will need a personal assistant her whole life if she doesn't learn now and 10 is a scary age to not know as much as she doesn't know.

Fair enough hypothesis, I'm very serious person by nature. The form of abuse in question is of the mental nature, manipulation, extreme fits of rage, shifting of responsibilities onto a 10 year, over dramatising issues to further influence the child.

My lil sister is mentally handicapped so she doesn't react as people would like who put others down. They feel bad and so they want a reaction from someone else. My sister doesn't give a reaction unless she starts crying and then my mother just goes ten times more. Then goes oh I am so sorry makes her believe it was her fault but it is ok cause mommy is here now and then ten minutes later "what the hell are you doing" or "I am going to kill your pets", or something breaks and suddenly the value goes up "oh those were your favourite, well too bad now I can't afford new ones and it really is too bad cause I wanted surprise you on your birthday and have it apart of your outfit". She even knows what she is doing and does these things on purpose to manipulate her she has demonstrated awareness of her mental ailment directly to me in the past and I walked out it was sickening. I never knew she was self-aware of it, I thought maybe she was bi-polar but no my mom is just a sad little girl herself that just wants a friend and everything to go how she wants it to go. She treats my sister like a slave, she did it to my eldest as well to the point she believed her duty as a child was to care for my mother. I was lucky enough to pull her out of it, I lost a lot but she gained a new lease on life and I want to do the same for the youngest. She is the sweetest thing ever and she has never acted out around me or anyone, she suffers from anxiety, she can't talk because of how they raised her, she has the potential of independence but they baby her and she my sister manipulates them so she doesn't have to learn. It is not a healthy environment as she thinks she can just do nothing, but what will happen is she will need a personal assistant her whole life if she doesn't learn now and 10 is a scary age to not know as much as she doesn't know.

Blow it out your ass.