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There has been multtple people who say they "loved me" and wanted a relationship, but every time they say that I automatically push them away. I stop talking to them or pick fights to make them not like me. Sometimes I do it without knowing I'm pushing the person away. I'm afraid I'll never have a relationship due to this issue. Help?
I know I'm like this, except no one has ever said they've liked me. I do this is because I think I'm a loser and the girl could probably do better. However, I really want her to like me, but I just keep on pushing her away. At least this is the behavior I know I have.
My suggestion would be to imagine yourself as someone who deserves love. Someone who isn't afraid to be held tight and be reminded that they're loved. You will find love this way. You deserve love and your aren't weird. There's someone out there who loves you, you just haven't met them yet. Be yourself and most importantly, be confident. Although, I have no idea if I have the credentials to be giving you advice.
You have to learn how to control it. When you see yourself doing this, or when you realized you've done this try to talk to the person again; apologize, meet up with them, hug them, express yourself to them or tell them about your issue. It might help.
I used to do this, my advice, just give that person a chance, youll never know what that relationship will have in store for you if you dont give it a chance(:
I sadly have this problem too :( guys fall hard and i make things awkward. maybe its because you don't actually like the person... or you're afraid of commitment.
I find people who limit my freedom of speech a major turn off. Is it normal?