Is it normal i punched my g/f in the face for this?

Well me and my girlfriend were arguing, my dad died last year and she knew it was a soft spot. We were really going at it and she screams at me, "Bet your dad killed himself to get away from you!" I couldnt handle it, my fist just flew at her face, it wasnt like a movie, where she slowly drops to the ground, silent tears in her eyes and a trickle of blood. It was an explosion, blood everywhere, she started screaming and i was freaking out. She pushed me back although i wasnt going to take it further. She ran to the bathroom and locked the door. Then it opened and she ran to her car, got in it and drove away. I tried calling her and understandably she rejected them. 10 minute later she rang my house and told my mum everything. I was horrified, my mum went nuts. I couldn't believe how much she was over-reacting. I get in one little fight and my mum gets scared. She said "Youre moving with your auntie and uncle to a town called bel-air". Advice?

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Comments ( 44 )
  • shuggy-chan

    dont be such a fresh prince?

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  • TheGasManCometh

    Nope, sorry - even with that kind of provocation, (and even with the Fresh Prince lyrics thrown in as a sweetener) it's still not OK to punch your partner in the face so hard that there's an explosion of blood, regardless of gender. If you allow that, you might as well say it's OK to rape someone because they're acting too damn sexy (and if anyone says it is, they are scum).

    I gotta say, it sounds a bit like she said it to try and MAKE you hit her - she's probably been trying to get you to piss off to Bel Air for a while!

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    • sega31098

      You do know what being Bel Air'd is?

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  • REvEnGE

    you punched a female...!
    And she is ur gf! Dude, u r screwed.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Normal.

    I got sent to Bel Air for four years for brutally murdering a Guatamalan family. I can't begin to describe the brutality.

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    • TerryVie

      oh, i've been sent to Jersey Shore for war crimes(i didn't think mercenarys were bound by the geneva conventions).
      oh, the horror. the HORROR.

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        It's OK... let it all out ...

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  • dinz

    Your girlfriend obviously pissed off at you for your high top hair style.

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  • davesumba

    it's definitely normal to want to punch your girlfriend in the face, but if you are ever actually going to do it, don't, just dump that stupid bitch. don't be surprised when a cop comes to your door to arrest you.

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    • Bitchfromheaven1111

      Damn straight :)

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  • Wendell

    Only if the fight was on a playground. Where you spend most of your days.

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  • iEatZombies_

    Whistle for a cab and when it comes near
    throw a rock through the windshield.

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  • If that was an actual situation (Obviously wasn't here) I would of said hit her twice.
    But in all seriousness, I would of walked over to her and be all like, nah, fo-foget it, yo holmes to bel-air.

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  • Austalien

    DID SHE LIKE IT ;) No but seriously any real man would punch anyone that said that in the face, Men and women are equals so what they think they can say and do what they what because they have a vagina >_>

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    • Silentnight

      Well if you look at a mans body, mostly tall, bigger and musclier, then you look at a womans body, small, petite, pretty much just flesh and bone, its obvious that men should not hit women, ever.

      And boy pleeeease. Its like me saying you don't have a right to be on here because you have a nut sack. Or maybe because you ARE a nut sack.

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      • Austalien

        Oh your just saying that because your having your period :)

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        • Silentnight

          Nah you're just saying that because you want my peroid in your mouth :-)

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          • Austalien

            I was really after the squirt on my face but will take your period if your offering, Mmmm copper coins :-)

            Ok i changed my mind if a gal is out of control don't punch her, Hog tie her and fuck her as rough as you can and choke and slap her not to hurt her just don't do it around a lot of others :-)

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            • Silentnight

              Hahahahaha you took like 5 days to come up with a comeback! You fucking joke!

              Thanks for the suggestion that was very thoughtful of you, but I have a better idea..... How about this, the girl ties you up, gets a needle and string, threads it down your dick out your chest, pulls on each end alternately to slice the shit out of it, gets a baseball bat and rapes you in your ass with it, gets a butcher knife and slices you dick in pieces, shoves it in your mouth and makes you eat it, then cuts off your balls and slaps you in the face with them until she gets bored of it.... then eventually makes you eat them too :-) Oh and she does it in front of your family while they're eating popcorn :-)

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  • farkelu

    It's a joke, people - don't you get it?

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  • TheBunnie

    I'm a girl, and even I feel like the "you can't hit a girl" argument is bullshit at times. It depends on the situation, really. In this situation however, she said something VERY uncalled for and flat out heartless. So honestly I can't blame you either.

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  • Blue_Velvet

    Don't really know if your'e trolling or not by mentioning bel air. Fresh prince :p If your'e serious though i think you should have slapped her face instead of punching her.

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  • Dad

    Yes and...?
    Did your dad kill himself to get away from you?

    I think you're going to have to mature up a bit before the next Gf. Women are very good at saying the things that can hurt us the most.

    You say you were going at it, and THEN she said it? Maybe you were going for it, but she had other thoughts, like NO.

    Send flowers and an apology, for both issues.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    After the Fresh Prince thing, i'm not sure if you're telling the truth or not, but if so then, yeah, I would've knocked her ass out. Normally, I don't believe that you should put your hands on anyone unless they put your hands on you, but in this case this girl needed to get her ass kicked. I think that it's funny that she wanted to run home crying about it. Little punk-ass bitch! Excuse the language, but this little girl really pisses me off. She's probably going to try to play the "victim" role but, truth is, she's not innocent and definatly got what she needed. She had no right to say what she said. And you went easy on her by not going Chuck Norris on her.

    She disrespected you to the lowest and thought she could get away with it. Bet she won't do it again!

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    • Bitchfromheaven1111

      I wanna see if that was u getting punched of that's what u want people saying !

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  • Austalien

    i would have choked her out and fucked her ass really violently but she would always be talking shit about your dad after that because she enjoyed it so much :)

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  • Cheet0

    NEVER PUNCH YPUR G/F in the face... Is a quick way to lose her, along w possibility of charges otherwise if she cares to let her father or otherwise in on what you did to her...

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  • CreamPuffs

    Serves her right.

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  • 777electric

    She deserved it.

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  • Noooo

    She deserved it!

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  • Silentnight

    The ending of this cracked me up lol.

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  • lillypoppy

    just curious, did you move???

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  • Bitchfromheaven1111

    You have no right to touch a girl let alone punch her in the face. Two wrongs Dont make a right. You should go to a hospital to control ur anger. If I were u i would have ignored her then left.

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  • pinx2binx

    She deserved it, she was damn well asking for it. I'm a girl and I would've done this same thing if I was a guy.

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    • Bitchfromheaven1111

      Ur messed then

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  • RosiePosy18

    Words hurt in a way that physical violence can't, so it's understandable that you were upset by that, and she sounds like a bit of a bitch but you can't just punch your girlfriend in the face like that. You could have seriously hurt or even killed her, and her words (however horrible and malicious) were simply words - they can only hurt you as much as you let them.

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  • Avant-Garde

    If this is true, you should know that when it comes to gender society is a double-edged sword. A woman can hit and abuse a man, but society views it as being acceptable. However, if a man does it all hell breaks loose and so on.

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    • davesumba

      society may view it as being acceptable, but the law doesn't. my female friend was in an argument with her bf and she slapped him across the face cause he was being mean and wouldn't leave and it was getting heated so she called the cops, cops came and arrested her for slapping him, and he got to walk away.

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  • hobbitses

    If she said that, its totally normal to be pissed and wanting to hit her... actually, its abnormal if you don't feel mad... But, i'd say you really need to work on controlling your temper.

    I'm imagining a fountain of blood spurting from her mouth, and if that was really the case, then you could have even killed her. So, you need to judge the force before you hit...even when you fight your friends. Its difficult, i know, but it's must if you don't want to kill your friends and girl-friends. Be careful, bro!

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  • lillypoppy

    My bf did that me... once, that was all it took, just once just one hit and then I had it. I said "F*ck it, f*ck you get the f*ck OUT!" so he walked away, called a cab about 7 or 8 and then I yelled at the cabby "yo homes smell you later!"

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  • xxWilky

    She punched you and nobody feels sorry for you? It's because she is a girl. It's bullshit i know

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I must salvage my shank and work it deep into The Fresh Prince Of Bel Air's small intestine.

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