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Is it normal that I only want to be with guys that aren't into me. Once they are attracted to me, it is an immediate turn-off. I start noticing all their flaws and they seems WAY less attractive, sometimes to the point where I find them repulsive.
Everybody wants thing we can't have, you enjoy the chase rather than the catch. Then maybe you think once that chase is over it becomes boring after all some relationship aren't all that exciting.
I think it's normal, flirting is fun and by doing it with someone who is unobtainable or not interested can be a useful way to practice flirting skills. Maybe, when they do reciprocate your self-defence mechanism kicks in (i.e. you know they're not the one for you) so you find them repulsive. I think that's a bit of an extreme reaction but hey ho. Maybe you should try concentrating on the ones you do find attractive - or are you scared that they'll then find you repulsive?
That's a classic defense mechanism to insure you never get close enough to be hurt (again?). Like the women who marry prison lifers and death row inmates, this is your way of staying 'safe'.
Until you are willing to risk being hurt (again?) this pattern will probably not change. You are missing out on a lot of good stuff for fear of bad that may never come.
I'm not into you.
Plus 99.999999% of guys world over are not into you.
The guys that you see and associate with I feel you should try to meet the right guy for you. Maybe venture out further ;)