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I’ve only tried once and I don’t really feel much from it. I probably just suck at it or didn’t do it right. It’s hard to get a good angle as well I guess. I don’t know.
Research has found that something like 75% of women don't get enough stimulation from vaginal thrusting - by penis, fingers, or any other object - to reach orgasm. Some women really enjoy vaginal stimulation, and that's normal for them. But for most women, the clitoris is what it's all about, and the position of their clitoris relative to their vaginal opening is such that movement of an object in and out of their vagina doesn't stimulate their clitoris very much.
Putting fingers or other (smooth, clean) objects in your vagina is a good way to become familiar with the sensations of penetrative sex, and many women include at least some penetration in their masturbation because it helps with their sexual fantasies, but some women never penetrate themselves when masturbating. Both are perfectly fine; it's your body, and you have to figure out what works for you.
I suggest you Google Betty Dodson and check out her website which is all about female masturbation.
I’ve never done it either. Girls don’t really need to masturbate when we can get sex any time we want.
It’s actually pretty hard to get pleasure from just fingering, you normally need some kind of clitoral stimulation too.
I'm not a woman but here's my best shot at answering this question from my own perspective.
Masturbation is perfectly fine to do, many would argue even healthy, and you shouldn't have any hangups about masturbating in your own personal time.
Women come in all shapes and sizes and all have different likes and preferences. Not every woman masturbates the same way and you don't have to "force" yourself to touch yourself the way you think everyone else does/should.
If something isn't as pleasurable as it should be, don't do it. No-one's going to give you a hard time just because you prefer not to finger yourself.
If you want to try penetrative sex, try getting a rampant rabbit from lovehoney. It's a vibrator which sits inside your pussy but has these two "ears" on it which are supposed to diddle your clit at the same time. Apparently it gives women amazing orgasms.
Well, that's all I've got. Hopefully you can make sense of my inane drivel and have a much more satisfying sex life from following it. :P
I am not a woman, but when a older friend showed me what to do, at first nothing happened. Much later I had something happening, and it just became better and better.
I've never done it either, and a lot of people have called me a liar for it. I have never had the desire to even try, as it sounds painful to me and I've never had a sex drive anyway.