Is it normal i might be bisexual but i won't act on it?

Hello, I'm a 20 yr old female and I think I might be bisexual. I have caught myself admiring other girls beauty or checking them out. Now I have dated nothing but males and do not get me wrong i do not fear being gay. However, I just wish to admire how pretty or cute women are. I have no desire to actually pursue a relationship with a female even though I find them very attractive. So my friends is this normal?

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Based on 442 votes (398 yes)
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  • pufferton

    But yeah maybe you just appreciate their beauty? Have you ever tried watching lesbian porn? Does it turn you on? I guess if you were curious enough and comfortable try experimenting with a girl? It could just be you see the beauty in the female body, as everyone should. But maybe It's more than that. Look at pictures/porn... Try to understand you're thoughts and body when you do it. Either way you're perfectly normal :~)

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  • ChloeVasiliev

    I think your just bi-curious. If you don't wish to act on it but you admire how beautiful a girl is then your boyfriend has a very good girlfriend!
    Being bi-curious is basically finding the same sex attractive but feeling no sexual or emotional desire to act on it, even though they find them attractive.
    It's completely normal to feel like this, most females do!

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  • UnwrittenPoet94

    Theres nothing wrong with that. I think that everyone is bisexual to a degree or that the same sex has at least crossed their minds once.

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  • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother

    Normal? That's freaking awesome! (Talking to Self: Compose yourself, idiot!) I mean, it is completely normal. You feel the way you feel. There's nothing with a girl who loves guys but also has a desire for other girls! That's why I love America!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    you can be whatever you want to be.

    just because you notice women does NOT mean you're obliged to experiment with them.

    You have the right to say "no" to any sexual situation you don't wish to get involved in.

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  • Infxmous

    Nothing wrong with appreciating another sex. That doesnt mean youre romantically interested in them. Nothing wrong with getting Turned on by the other sex either, thats a fantasy, not reality

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  • Anonymous201

    I feel the same way but I would never act on it either. There are a lot of times I admire another girl's beauty. Although, I kind of want to try out a 3 some with another girl...

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  • Jemima

    I'z seyz make some pancake batter and spread it on yo' cooter and see what happen!
    Oh lowdy lowdy lowdy!!

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    • GeorgeMcBob

      ^^ This is what happens when people let their pet monkeys dance on their keyboards.

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    • pufferton

      Wtf lol

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  • 2big4u

    When I was like 12yrs old I spend the night at a friends house I got up to use the bathroom so I walked by my friends dads bedroom door and he was still up and he was naked I saw his big dick so I went to the restroom and he said who's that out there I told him it was me he said u can come in if u like to talk I said ok I told him that I saw your dick and I like it he said u did u want to play with it I said yes he layed on the bed and told me put it in your mouth so I did he was jurking it and cumed in my mouth and told me to swallow it I ask him if I can still put it in my mouth he said go ahead so he got hard again so I started to go up and down on his dick and he held my head on his dick and. He was cuming again I told him u want me to swollow it he said yes he rolled over and told me lick his asshole so I did he got hard again then he said put my dick in your mouth so he was jurking it and cumed again so I swallowed it he told he u swallowed it I said yes he said do u want to do it again later I said yes he said ill let you know to come back in I said ok

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  • Pipi-Lisinho

    It's more than normal... It's called DENIAL...
    If you feel ok about checking girls out and getting aroused without actually acting on it. Go on...
    It's totally up to you.
    Masturbate with the idea. It's better than noting.

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  • tener-razon

    Same here

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  • buntaboss25k

    you should take the dive to the land of muffins.

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  • according to time, it is fully normal enjoy and share it without any fear & confusion.

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  • GeorgeMcBob

    Try playing for the all-girl's team, at least. We only live once.

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  • bassjetter

    nothing wrong with it. i am a girl who have dated only guys and have a bf who i love so much and am always wanting him sexually. but not long ago i found myself getting turned on by joan jett-i have been a fan of hers since i was a teen but recently i got looking at her lips and the fact she can rock it (and i am a rocker chick too). i got aroused big time. i felt kind of sick about the whole thing but it is known she is bi and i think i was feeling her male side..cause i didnt see her as a woman but as one of the guys.

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  • narutothesouleater

    I am having the same problem except i am a guy, i know i like girls but i have been looking at guys for a while now. I really would just like to know if i'm bi or not, but i do not know how to act on it.

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  • There is no such thing. People ALWAYS have a stronger inclination to a certain sex. Bisexuals are people prone to boredom or simply greedy. Deep down they're either gay or straight.

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    • Glass

      How does liking both sexes correlate to being greedy?
      Elaborate.

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      • "People ALWAYS have a stronger inclination to a certain sex" Meaning you might sleep with both sexes but you'll always like one more than the other so your never truly bi. It's out of need for more stimulation, Either physically or emotionally. Ive been through a stage of it and know others who have admitted the same things about it. It's wanting more options and more of everything, "greedy" is a damn good word for it. Not that im hating, they're the smart ones.

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        • LordKira

          absolutes are very rarely true

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          • SEXUALITY ISN'T A CHOICE. That is a FACT. So your whole argument is invalid.

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            • I dont believe sexuality is solely based on 2 categories: attracted to men or attracted to women. Meaning just being straight or just being gay. I believe people can just fall in love with a person regardless of their gender.

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        • Glass

          But that's what being bi is, having an attraction to both sexes. If you want to say that no one can truly be bi because it's a 50/50 attraction, then what can you even call people who don't mind being with both genders? They're neither entirely straight nor gay, so you just call them greedy?
          As of right now I'm trying to figure out (or accept) what the hell my sexuality is, and I can say it has nothing to do with wanting more of anything, it's curiosity. Reason I'm even saying this is because I don't like being put under false fact if I do figure out I like both genders. I completely despise it when people call me something I know I'm not.

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          • "if I do figure out I like both genders"
            Figure out? You have natural sexual instincts like everyone else, you KNOW what your preference is. Its simple, was the first person you were ever attracted to male or female. First one is the natural instinct coming out, if it changed later it would be due to delusion. Bi is a pointless fake term to make being slightly greedy people feel special. Your either one or the other no matter how much you try and kid yourself. I only date women and feel more attraction to women, but i've been with guys a few times. I just got greedy and wanted a change, "bi" just means "bullshit instincts"

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            • LordKira

              "bullshit instincts" my fat ass!!! Do you think that one day people just discover their sexual orientation, and say, "Oh, I'm gay/strait."? No, it took me two years to discover and accept myself. So to you sir, I say good day

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        • LordKira

          I guess that once again I'm the exception to the rule. If u knew me, you would be singing a different song
          May the Godess be with you.

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