Is it normal i make this everytime and then regret it?

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I've been hurt by many people and lately I've been behaving more and more colder towards everyone, and it is worrying me because I get hurt when people back off but I don't make the effort for them to come talk to me. I always presume that they are not interested and they're not going to have genuin interest and they'll always leave me behind, so many times I stopped being afectuous and treated others agressively sometimes. I am in a recent relationship and I'm always thinking he will stop liking me and I panick over physical contact, always thinking I am doing it wrong.
Is this attitude normal?

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Based on 38 votes (11 yes)
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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You mean like abandonment anxiety? Just give off signs that you are open to friendship. Being cold protects you for a short time, but then world responds with even more coldness back to you.

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    • agirlwithrandomquestions
      9 years ago

      Yeah, I think so. Thank you for the advise.

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  • (.)(.)boobies
    9 years ago

    Do you want to be a cold and bitter person? Is that really the person you WANT to be? Instead, choose to be a loving open person who's wiser from the mistakes they've made in the past.

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    • agirlwithrandomquestions
      9 years ago

      I know that is the right way to be, I will do my best to do so.

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      • (.)(.)boobies
        9 years ago

        I've been hurt too and it can difficult to let go of the pain sometimes. But, when you decide to make it a learning experience, it gives you some power back and you won't need those icy walls of bitterness to protect yourself any more.

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  • EccentricWeird
    9 years ago

    When I make cookies, I regret it afterwards because they make me gain weight.

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    • agirlwithrandomquestions
      9 years ago

      Well thanks

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