Is it normal i'm worried about their reactions ??

I love tough men, but every so often I feel like a change. I 'm off to a concert in a few weeks time. The singer's voice (female) has never not been part of the backdrop to my life. She's that good., I do tend to think of her as a male fan of the band would. This wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't severely disabled & didn't have to be taken to said concert. The band is absolutely brilliant & I don't want to be put off them, which I will if I’m found out because I’ll never hear the end of it (none of my choices are/have been the usual ones)