Is it normal i'm upset my sister didn't tell me about heart attack?
My sister has just told me via facebook that she had a heart attack (I think last year) and had a stent inserted. I'm flabbergasted that she or her partner didn't let me know.
We've never been really close and she has been unsupportive of me in the past when I've been in crisis. When I had a heart attack 5 years ago my daughter let her know straight away and all she said was "Oh well, I'm just getting ready to go away for the weekend" and never contacted me subsequently to check how I was or whether I was even still alive.
I feel now as if I don't have a sister: why bother with someone like that? To be clear, we're the only ones left from our immediate family as both our parents and our brother are dead.
I'm feeling really sad but also angry and I guess I'll get over it in time, but am I over-reacting? Is it normal for someone to not let their closest relative know when they're seriously ill?