Is it normal i'm straight but attracted to to a lesbian?

I'm a straight 22 year old woman with a boyfriend of 4 years. Today I was grocery shopping and noticed an employee there. Not to stereotype, but she had a lesbian vibe. Short hair, tall and big for a woman and dressed in mens fashion. The only obvious indicator of her being female were her breasts. The way she moved and spoke was not feminine. I found myself having feelings of attraction towards her based off just those things mentioned. I watched her from the food court area and got happy when she looked at me for a very brief second. I wanted to talk to her, ask her name, get to know her. I wondered what it would be like to date her, have her cuddle me in her arms, kiss and then I imagined sex with her. I've never been with a girl so I didn't really know what to imagine. I wouldn't mind her doing things to me, but I don't think I could return the favor. I'm not sexually attracted to females, yet I feel attraction to this woman in other ways. I keep thinking about her and I feel sort of guilty. I wouldn't leave my boyfriend for anyone, but I feel like I really want to know her. Only other instance like this happened in 4th or 5th grade. I developed a crush on a girl who also had boyish traits.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Look up: "The Kinsley Scale". Why don't you get to know her first? I am not saying that you should cheat on your man but, you can get to know her and see whether or not it would be worth it too leave your man and a start a relationship with this person.

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  • forever_anon

    Sure, it's normal to be curious. It sounds like you're still mostly straight because you are attracted to her masculine traits, but it's hard to know for certain until you have an experience with a girl. Do you think there's a chance you'll see her again? And if you stay with your boyfriend, do you think you'll regret not giving it a go with this girl? Or would you be happy just keeping your feelings for her in the realm of fantasy? Just some questions you may wish to ponder.

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  • Diver2

    Suck each other off, it is the only way you will ever know, or at least get her to do you.

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  • Riddler

    Sorry to break it to you but your not Straight. At least not completely.

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    • Riddler

      http://youtu.be/7unWmjsjf0k

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  • snitchel_cracker

    Feelin a lil lusty, eh?

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  • halfemptyhalffull

    I have been "attracted" to people initially thinking it was "sexual" but it ended up not and most of them I have become great friends with. You being attracted to a masculine girl would be no different then a straight guy being attracted to a feminine guy (which, although it is rarely admitted, happens a lot) But, like I said....just because you think its a certain attraction doesn't make it so (but you can't find that out until you talk to them)

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  • You said you wouldn't leave your boyfriend for anyone, how about leaving him for him?

    It's obvious that you have a strong attraction to someone else, and it's not fair on him. He deserves to know so he can decide if he wants to be with someone that has a strong attraction to someone else.

    Tell him or leave him. It's not fair on him.

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