Is it normal i'm so envious of kate middleton?

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A lot of people dislike Kate Middleton and for awhile I thought I did, as well. Then I realised that what I feel for her whenever I see her picture is pure envy. Her life is so unbelievably perfect, I could cry.

After the royal wedding, I went into a mild depression and I wasn't sure why. Now I understand that I was so sad, because I realised my life is never going to be half as good as hers. I think if she were born into it, I wouldn't be as jealous, but just knowing that she was simply a young woman with an education and the right connections drives me crazy, because that could be me! But it's not and it never will be, unless I somehow meet another member of royalty.

I'm jealous of everything about her: her title, her hair, her clothes, now I'm jealous that she's pregnant...I don't know why! I'm not sure if I even want children, but she makes everything flawless, even while pregnant.

How can I get past this? My life is so stupid compared to hers and I can't get over it. I'm about to finish university with top marks but that thought doesn't even cheer me up. I am WORTHLESS next to her.

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  • SkullsNBones
    11 years ago

    You're just jealous of her incredibly good luck, nothing to be ashamed of I think most women in the UK are secretly a bit jealous of her! You're not "worthless" just because you didn't get to marry a prince, there's more to life than fame riches and titles.
    Try making a list of 5 positive things in your life, it might help.

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  • Murun
    6 years ago

    She's only married into a big gangster family. Nothing to be envious of.

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  • DanielleStl
    6 years ago

    I completely understand where you are coming from, though I'm more envious of Pippa's life than Kate's, to be honest. She doesn't even have to do anything, unlike Kate who has some obligations as a member of the royal house. But I feel very similar about these sisters and their entire family. They are wealthy, protected, they have access to the best opportunities and they seem to be a close-knit clan on top of that.

    Well, I guess there are three things that one needs to remember:

    1. Not everything is what it seems. We only know about their lives through media and what the Middletons themselves choose to reveal. They are people just like everyone else and their lives are not as perfect as they seem.

    2. The fact that you feel something doesn't mean it's true or rather, think about people who DO NOT feel envious of Kate? It's all in your head so that means it's relative. What some people find important, others won't ever give any thought to. I have friends who don't even know who is Kate Middleton and they just don't care. Again, as you see, it's all relative.

    3. There will always be someone envious of YOUR life and what YOU have. I remember my ex-roommate once told me that if she had my looks her life would've been much better, she would go into modeling and acting. Was she ugly? No. She just genuinely thought that she would have been happier is she looked like me.

    Hope this helps...

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  • macaroniheyo
    11 years ago

    am i the only one who didnt give a shit bout the royal wedding? theyre just people. and remember, shes not flawless, it just seems that way.

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