Is it normal i'm never turned on?

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I'm 18 and I've hooked up with two guys. The first was a few years ago, we made out a lot. He was a good kisser and it was nice, but the whole time I was thinking about other stuff. I never felt any butterflies, tingling, lightheadedness, fireworks etc. He also fingered me and I felt absolutely nothing. The second guy I made out with, but he was a terrible kisser. He also fingered me, but once again I felt nothing.

I'm never been very turned on. I am very interested in sex and stuff and I crave it, but I'm sick of not feeling anything. I've tried masturbating, doesn't work.

As someone who has always been very interested in sex, etc this is very disappointing!

Do I have a sexual arousal disorder or anything? Any advice?

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  • ews4
    8 years ago

    Look at pornography on the web to see the variety of ways of masturbating.
    You may find an older lover knows how to bring you off.

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  • starie
    10 years ago

    Maybe you need to be attracted emotionally first to then feel something? Like actually care about them, making you desire them? Or maybe your broken... what do I know.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    You might actually. What form of masturbation have you used? lots of girls (when they're younger/inexperienced) seem to think sticking a finger in and out is what you're supposed to do. Try googling other techniques or getting a small vibrating toy to help you.

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