Is it normal i'm interested in swinging

I've known only a couple of swingers in my day and they are both divorced due to the swinging thing. One woman even left her husband for the first guy they did the swinging with. Not that this may not be for you, but I'm just saying think about the repercussions.

I'm not an expert, but I understand that swinging results in many breakups. Good luck to you.

what the hell does this mean I thought you wanted to swing on a chair or some shit

Absolutely normal! My parents used to go camping once a year with three other couples and basically have a week long orgy! My boyfriend and I recently did the same with three couples from my former university! It was so much fun...and we plan to make this an annual event!

My wife and I are swingers and my mother-in-law sometimes joins. My wife and I live in the Bay Area and have been swinging for 4 years. We've been married for 3. She is a bi-sexual Chinese woman and I have tried sex with a man a few times. I don't mind it but prefer women instead.
We had multiple threesomes when we dated (we had a threesome within the first week we dated). We went to our first orgy/sex party for our 6 month dating anniversary. It was a bit awkward at first but we thoroughly enjoyed it. Since getting married we have attended at least 4 orgies a year. We swing with a couple our age about once or a few times a month and have had sex with 20+ girls, 5 guys, and 10 other couples besides the one I mentioned earlier. My wife has a log to keep track. She has three different girls and one guy that she regularly fucks and is dating one of those girls. I have another girl and my mother-in-law that I regularly have sex with besides my wife. I am dating my mother-in-law. For most people this would be crazy and difficult to manage but we are open and honest with each other and don't have sex with anyone else or date anyone else unless the other approves of it. We have an active and adventerous sex life and when we have sex with each other after fucking other people it is some of the best sex ever. Also, it is incredible to watch my wife fuck and get fucked. She has told me the biggest turn on for her is that I am her mother's lover. They share with each other about their time with me. Swinging is a wonderful lifestyle for those who can handle it.

It really spiced are relationship up going to a swingers club first time we went we had sex with another couple and same night I watched my girlfriend with another bloke we been 4 times and love it now the mount of cocks my girlfriend gets she loves it especially on the orgy table multiple gangbang

Me and my partner have been to a swingers club now 5 times we love it now strange at first we look forward to going now

Another couple? Your right hand doesn't count.

Try asking your partner, but find the right moment for the question. Don't pop out of the blue " honey, I want to talk to you about something" .

If the relation is good and they said NO. Leave it alone. Maybe someday they may come back to you about that proposal and if it goes through do it once or twice a year ( not a hobby) if you really love your girl. But its fun, I've been to sex parties before.

The most basic question: why do you want this? Is it mainly so you can screw another woman with your wife's approval? Or is it primarily because you want to see her fucked by another man?

As far as I'm concerned, either is valid, but the couple needs to be very clear on what exactly is going on, what you both hope to gain from the experience, and what the ground rules will be.

As OldMemory said, open and truly honest communication is the most important thing. Listen to what your wife says and respect her views. If this is something you really want, it will be tempting to try to do a sales job on her, but try to avoid that. Finding ways to address her concerns is one thing; pressuring her into going along with what you want something else.

Be aware that violating social norms like this can be a huge challenge for women who are socialised from a very young age to be faithful to one partner at a time, and to consider women who don't do that to be sluts. Also be aware that the bonding hormones that come into play during good sex can do a number on women in particular. That's part of the reason scenarios like the one OldMemory mentioned - the woman leaving her husband for the guy who was supposed to be just a little fling - aren't that uncommon.

Generally speaking, women aren't as good at compartmentalising sex and love as men are. Many women also have problems understanding that, just because their spouse or partner is happy to see them having sex with someone else, that doesn't mean they no longer want them or love them. Your wife may well be very concerned that, no matter what you say now, once you've seen her having sex with another man, you'll no longer respect her and you'll dump her as soon as you can.

I'd suggest you both think very carefully about jealousy and discuss that potential problem in depth. Even if you think it won't be an issue and you'll be able to keep a firm grip on the idea that it's just about physical pleasure, either or both of you may well be ambushed by unpleasant feelings during the event. You need to understand the root causes of jealousy, and know how you can try to deal with those feelings.

Are you a guy or girl?

there are groups on the web devoted to this sort of thing.
Unfortunately most of them are fat ugly couples who think Ken and Barbie are going to come over for some "menage a trois" or would it be "menage a quatre"

I am not a swinger, I knew a couple who was or at least wanted to. needless to say, they were not Ken and Barbie. More like Roseanne and Dan.

You're asking this on IIN. What do you expect?

Don't catch AIDS, or syphilis.

Nothing wrong with that. Be careful who you hookup with and have fun.