Is it normal- i'm in love with someone i have but cant really have

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Im in a relationship with a married man. Have been for a couple years. We see and talk to each other all the time. We get along great and have great sex. In my eyes he's perfect. And even though i can have just about anyone i want, can't even think about hooking up with anyone else. I know he will never leave his family even though he and his wife aren't even close. I've tried to let it go, but i'm so in love with him i don't even care if i'm a homewrecker. I keep thinking maybe one day she will just leave and i can finally have him forever. I think of him ALL the time. I love him so much. Is this normal?

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Maybe not that common, but normal to want something you cannot have! There many more in the world just like you and happy! Good luck with your choices

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Do you think, subconsciously, you want someone who can never actually fully commit to you, because you yourself are scared of that level of commitment?

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  • Cobrakitnu
    12 years ago

    What if you were married and your husband/a tramp did this to you?

    Stop before it gets worse.

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