Is it normal i'm in love with him?

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I've known this guy for two years. We have been best friends ever since we met. When I first saw him I knew I wanted to be with him. His eyes are like the sea, and the way he talks to me seems like he's interested. The only thing holding me back from telling him is that he has a girlfriend. I try to ignore the feelings, but I'm in love with him. I know most people will hate on this because it's one of those 'Im in love with my best friend' stories. I am really having trouble with what to do. Any advice? Thanks(:

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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago

    I think that what you need to do is:
    Speak with your best friend first,
    Tell him that you would like to speak with him and his girlfriend together. Very subtly, try to let him know if he and his girlfriend would be receptive to a triangle of love. The three of you will need to define the bounds of 'love'.
    Remember that this is a three-way partnership.

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    Aww, I feel the same way about this girl. She's single, but she does have feelings for someone, but someone asked her if she liked me, and she said "no, we're friends," but I would do anything to be with her. I'm in love with her.

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  • AnonymousPanda
    12 years ago

    Ask him what he thinks of u lol. The worst that can happen is he says he doesn't like you and thats it

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  • Oathedbells
    12 years ago

    try to figure out who he would feel about your feelings

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Wait patiently, 3-4 years with his gf should be enough time for him to get tired and dump her! Then you'll be there for him.

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  • FireWorks
    12 years ago

    I don't think I can help you here. I've been in your position and it wasn't even better than yours. Two times. The first one, I kept it to myself. Period.
    The next one, I confessed it in a playful manner but ever since that we've never talked to each other. He avoided me like I was some kinda plague. Tragic.

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