Is it normal i'm in a relationship with a man who is 30 years older?

What are your thoughts? I'm 20 and he's 50. We have great conversations and great sex. Never argued. Care for each other. 7 months together.
i would like to know what people think

Grossssss 14
Totally okay, as long as its legal 13
its not gonna last but w/e 8
Love knows no age 12
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  • purpleflower

    Love knows no age (as long as the youngest person is over 18). Don't let the people that doubt your relationship get you down. Don't rush into anything before you are sure, and really inspect the relationship to see if it is what you want (as you would with any relationship). Best of luck :)

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    • thank you kindly, i really do appreciate your words

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Does he use viagra?

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    • nope..

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  • Avant-Garde

    Perfectly normal. You two are both consenting adults so, whatever choices you make are your business. Good luck.

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  • farkelu

    @Booger amazing that you can make such an evaluation without knowing either person or anything else about the relationship! Are you clairvoyant? Or a therapist? Wow!

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    He's probably gonna die way before you... just my thoughts.

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    • that is a pretty big flaw.. i can never think about it for too long

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  • thegypsysailor

    My girl friend is 41 years my junior. We are sailing around the Caribbean on a 50' sailboat and having more fun than a barrel of monkeys, together. I am not rich, though I do not have to work and she is obviously a lot of help sailing and maintaining the boat.
    We discussed the fact that she will outlive me by many years, before we sailed to the Caribbean, and she accepts it in exchange for whatever time we can have together. Obviously, there are few or no women my age who would enjoy this lifestyle, so that is not a reality and even if there was one, the work is pretty strenuous for a mid-60's (or even most mid-40's) woman.
    I think it sad a few of you cannot accept the age difference of the poster's relationship and of course you will be even meaner to me. However, I don't care as we are happy, having fun and enjoy each others company.
    She has a great sense of humor, by the way, calling herself my sCrew to those who ask if we are "together".

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    That's fine but keep in mind because he's older, his health is going to go down the crapper way before yours. Be prepared to handle those days when they come. I've seen a few marriages fall apart once the older person's health decreases.

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  • (s)aint

    Meh, i'd not get together with someone that old myself since I find it to be repulsive.

    But if the two of you are happy and enjoy one anothers company, go for it!
    You make him happy and he makes you happy, there is really nothing wrong with this.

    Only issue is that he will probably die before you, and leave you heartbroken and alone </3

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  • Boogar

    This is a PARENT/CHILD relationship. He is a pervert, what he can't find playmates his own age? Look very closely at him...make sure he isn't married.

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  • anti-hero

    I mean recently it seems like the sun is hanging a little lower, if you know what I mean.

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    • Avant-Garde

      But the sun always rises, if you know what I mean.

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