Is it normal i'm having a bad month

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I feel so depressed , I feel like i'm alone in this world and I cry myself to sleep , I just lost one of my friends recently and act like it's nothing in front of people but go home and cry , I've been crying for 4days (legit 4days). I am second guessing myself and every decision I made , I feel like this month was one of the most horrible months. I just cut all the people I know out of my life and yesterday deleted all my social media accounts , I don't know what to do with my life at this point

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    You move on.
    That's what you do.
    I'm not making light of it.
    I've deleted people on multiple occasions.
    They just don't get what you're going through, and aren't really there.
    So caught up in their own stuff.
    But, you just move on.
    You do what you can to make this month better.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Hopefully you can get some peace out of knowing it will pass! And you will meet new friends.

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  • tobey-kitty
    5 years ago

    everyone has their highs and their lows and some lows are lower than others but some highs are higher than others, what I’m saying is that it does get better and it’s ok to be upset right now in the moment but it won’t always be like this just keep working hard and focus on the future and you will eventually be proud of where you end up

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    its called grief, it could take a few months to pass especially if you were v close with your friend

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  • Derangedwonderland
    5 years ago

    A fight with a friend is never easy, especially when you wanted her in your life more then she wanted you. You are only thinking of the good things. Remember the bad things too.
    Good for you to leaving a friendship that was only one-sided. The pain and loss of her will go away.
    You just need to move on 👣, get out do things with other friends.
    You don't have to be a social butterfly yet... Keeping busy and finding things you love 💘 to do will help find new friends 💋

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  • BleedingPain
    5 years ago

    Lost my best friend 4 years ago and it destroyed me. (Both in a car crash. He died, I lived) I went through a similar phase of self doubt, questioning “why me” but I learned to move on. There are still some things I will not do, but I have learned that after a while sitting around and crying accomplishes nothing. Cherish the moments you had, but learn to make new ones.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    When you say "lost", you mean like they passed away or was it a big fight and you two parted ways?

    If your friend died, yes that is very difficult to deal with. Healing will not be a fast process.

    If a fight, what happened that such an important friend would just be lost suddenly? Usually the more established a relationship, the more it takes to suddenly end it. Some friendships slowly fade away but that doesn't sound like the case here.

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    • Depressedaf
      5 years ago

      We had a fight , we didn't know each other for long but she was important to me and was like a sister to me , but I realised that she was only using me and wanted to be friends with only when it suited her , so I ended things with her , and now seeing her move on so quickly made me feel sad and sometimes I think that I did a huge mistake , A lot of bad things are happening in my life right now and i'm just lost , I don't even know why I feel sad sometimes..

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      • leggs91200
        5 years ago

        Alright.
        I think what happened is she didn't turn out to be the person you hoped and thought she was.
        That can be pretty painful. Just really disappointing.

        I have had friends like that. At first they seem awesome but then when they show their true colors, it can really suck.

        I guess just try to come to terms with the fact that the person you looked up to didn't really exist except in your hopes.

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        • Depressedaf
          5 years ago

          Yeah , thank u

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Start reading books about grieving, and bereavement. Maybe see a therapist, and or go to a support group for people who are grieving the loss of a loved one.

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