Is it normal i'm gushy romantic but dominant sexually?

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I'm a realist and thus very cynical most of the time but once I'm in a relationship with a girl I'm kind of like a hopeless romantic.
I plan out surprise dates, buy them flowers just to see her smile, I'll sometimes cook home made dinners for us. I'll buy her teddy bears and chocolates for no special reason, I'll massage her and I LOVE to cuddle up and watch movies.
BUT... when I get into the bedroom I am super dominant.
I like to be completely in control, I like to choke, spank, and bite. I'll often purposefully leave so many hickeys around their neck that I tell them it's my collar for you. I'm so dominant that when I hooked up with this girl I met over the weekend she tried to order me to do something, and my first instinct was to throw her out of bed and tell her to get out(Note I did not do this, but it was the first thought that came to mind when she said that)

is it normal to be super cutesy romantic outside the bedroom and maga dominant in?

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Based on 28 votes (25 yes)
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  • bubsy
    7 years ago

    This is typical, for a man. Sign of a healthy relationship.

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  • ojimpu
    6 years ago

    I like these kind of guys.

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  • Kristinica
    7 years ago

    Its normal, im just like that and im a girl :) for example. I love when guy pulls my hair during sex but if he would do it outside of bad id be maaaad as fuck lol. I like being romantic outside of bed and i like respect, but during sex its the opposite

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