Is it normal i'm attracted to my 14 year old friend?

Id say its normal, ive seen girls who were obviously way under aged and been attracted to them. But theres a certain moral responsibility there, its just not something you'd want to act upon. Not even the legal repercussion, but they're still growing and learning the ropes to life, and as an adult you should be emotionally mature enough to control said urges. So I will end by saying
Iin to be attracted? Yes
Iin to have an obsession(for her or anyone for that matter)? No
Just dont act on it bruh, youll regret it

It's normal to have the attraction to her, but it would not be normal OR safe to act on your feelings for her.

I'll be honest with you. I'm a bit older than you, almost 26, and I am definitely lusting over a 17 year old girl I met online. I think she's absolutely amazing. They say that girls mature faster than boys, and I can tell that she is very smart and mature. In fact she makes me feel like I am at the same maturity level as her. Obviously a 17 year old is more grown up than a 14 year old, but the age gap between me and her is bigger than between you and the 14 year old girl. There's also the protective instinct -- guys subconsciously want to protect their girlfriend, and her being younger reinforces that pattern in your brain. Overall, society's rules often don't make sense, but laws dictate that you can only legally get involved with her once she turns 18. Again, it's not like something magical happens on someone's 18th birthday. Keep her interested, have conversations with her, get to know her personality and her likes/dislikes, and who knows, she might be into you. Girls are impressed by guys who are respectful, responsible, and genuine. Usually girls will like older guys just because they're so impressed by the guy's mature attitude and his achievements, accomplishments, and adult perspective on life aka his experience (but who still knows how to have fun). Good luck

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