Is it normal i'm attracted to much older men?

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Is it normal that I'm really into much older men? Not in a gold digger way, not in a searching for attention way-- no. I genuinely am attracted to men significantly older than me. I'm not talking a couple years either... I mean a couple decades. My whole life I've been told I'm mature for my age, so maybe I just don't find anything in common with men around my age. I've tried it before, I have. And it has never worked out. I also don't have any moral issues with this as some people do. What's the big deal if one partner is much older than the other if they are both CHOOSING to be in this relationship? So, is it normal I dream only of being with someone much older?

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  • Koda
    8 years ago

    If you're 20 and you're interested in a guy who's 40, that's not unusual, but if you're 45 and interested in a guy who's 75, that's another story.

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  • Holzman67
    10 years ago

    yeah it's normal don't sweat it

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  • cat44
    10 years ago

    Benedict Cumberbatch, Tom Hiddleston, Misha Collins, I'm pretty sure it's normal when those names are involved.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Yes. In fact, I tend to be attracted to older women.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Older woman+younger man, that's hot.
    Older man+younger woman, that's gross.

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    • Koda
      8 years ago

      Why? That makes no sense. The latter is MUCH more common. Plus, men stay physically attractive longer on average.

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      • handsignals
        8 years ago

        Wrong!

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