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I love seeing girls around me but i can't just ask them out.I alway chicken out and now am still single still date.Am still a virgin with high sex drive.
Nature is cruel if you are a sensitive guy. I know what you are talking about.
OK, a question.
what do you think will happen if you ask a girl out?
Do you think she will pull a weapon out of her purse and shoot you dead?
Will she run down the hall screaming, "rape, rape, rape."?
Slap your face for even talking to her?
Politely say no and thanks anyway? A little embarrassing perhaps, but honestly, survivable.
Or horrors of horrors, she might actually say yes. (then you are fucked aren't you, because now it's "what next")
Grow a pair and ask. You have absolutely nothing to lose and EVERYTHING to gain.
Thegypsysailor must be a woman. She seems to assume you are as attractive as an average guy, not realizing that women do slap any guy with below average looks because they are creeped out by his appearance.
My advice is to stick with parties. Just project that you don't give a damn and are rude and crude. A minority of girls are attracted by this. If you notice who they are, you might be in for a nice conversation provided that you maintain your funny wise ass persona. Whatever you do, don't be clingy or look dependent.
You couldn't be more mistaken than to call "thegypsysailor" a women. He is right on here and if you read some of his comments, you will know that he really cares about people and even though he may be older than I am, he is still very good with his advise.
Take another look at what he is saying and you may change your mind.
What this kid needs is encouragement to ask a girl out. The first time may be difficult, but given the right direction, as the "sailor" has given, should go about business of being comfortable and secure to ask away.
I'm bad at giving advice so don't do anything you'd regret. First, I'd say don't make yourself worry too much that you lose focus. Sex is an experience you should not deprive yourself of. The next thing you know your best years are gone. So gain some experience with someone older perhaps or a really good friend. Always wear protection. Remember, life is suppose to be easy we make it difficult.