Is it normal i love taking care of my self and love the fake look?

Are you sure you aren't pregnant? You definitely missed a few periods in this post.

I just don't understand why you would want to be fake. Getting your nails done, hair done, and tanning is not taking care of yourself. You are hiding. Who are you hiding from?

When I see women who look like you I want to rip their hair out and beat them senseless.

Yeah.... I "think his right."

It shows insecurity to want to be totally fake n that u want attention from other guys that's why but I understand

I don't see that shit as taking care of yourself. What's wrong with how you look without extensions or fake nails? Or all the makeup? Its your body so do what you want, but I think your totally misguided

It sounds like you enjoy looking the way you do, and it sounds like it's not his preference. It's not my preference, either, but it's your body and your life and he shouldn't make you feel bad just for your own preferences.

I don't agree with plastic surgery, I don't even wear any make up what so ever. I don't agree with cover up your natural beauty. But I think that your boyfriend wants you to be someone you aren't. I do agree with your boyfirend. But I think if he wants those traits in a girl maybe he shouldn't be with you. Because if you were to be that girl that he wants you to be. You wouldn't just look fake you would be acting fake, acting like someone you aren't and that to me is worse then looking fake.

I think your boyfriend just wants you to look more respectable or tone down your "fake look".

I personally wouldn't want to look fake and I can totally see where he's coming from, but at the end of the day, it's your body.

If looking like Barbie is what floats your boat, then that's up to you. If he can't accept you wanting to look the way you want to look, then that's his problem I guess (although I agree with him to be perfectly honest).

Just be yourself, whoever that may be.

EB x

be yourself! if he loves you hell take you as is. he knew what kind of person you were from when yous first met and if he had a problem with it he wouldn't have dated you in the first place.

like all of those his instead of he's. so great.

You are messed up i mean seriously, eat some cake annnd chill

I'm definitely not a fan of paying so much attention to my looks.. I roll out of bed and go to work. I don't have to brush my hair 90% of the time and for a whole 6 months this year, I didn't. Maybe 10% of the time that I go out, I wear eyeliner but that's only because it brings attention to my eyes, and gives me this artsy feeling.

I've sort of adapted to the minimalistic kind of lifestyle and it doesn't include make up or spending money on things I don't need to live.

I don't tan and I don't get my nails done. If I had my nails done they'd all be torn off by the end of the night anyway. I usually keep my nails short because otherwise they annoy the crap out of me when I'm at work, cleaning or typing..

I personally despise the 'fake' look. I'm glad you call it that because it's exactly how most people on the outside of your lifestyle see it...
Look however you want but I'm with your bf on this one. He wants you for you, not for what you try to be. Maybe you two just are just on completely different wavelengths..

Sounds like you are changing yourself more than he wants to change you. Meet in the middle

You're not going to like the truth!

He probably loves you to bits and I think he's trying to suggest you change before he could ever suggest marriage. He doesn't want you to be so vain and materialistic as he's going to end up being the one financing it.

You may have the time to do all this at the moment but he's more concerned about the future. What if you were to go out to work, get home, make the dinner, clean the house, see to children, etc? Would you want to? Or would you rather see to yourself? Therefore, you're not marriage material :o(

Taking great care of yourself is one thing which i support 100%. But I think that you are taking it to a whole different level. Most girls do those things to enhance their natural beauty and know where to stop they do not want to try to look fake so keep that in mind. However that is not the issue here. The issuse is that you and your boyfriend don't seem to be right for each other. You seem really different and it would probably be best to break up so you can be happy and be yourself instead of him being controlling.

if all of that about you is true; you have insecurity written all over you. so yeah, that could be a problem.

If you look like a whore might as well act like one now go find a nice big cock to suck on.

Be who you want to be, not who someone else wants you to be :P

doesn't sound like you two should be together. he sounds controlling.

hmmmm a pornstar look and he dun like it?
Is he a phaggot?
And you should do what you want and he should learn to fucking respect your wishes he's just a douchekebab Dump him!

I'm trying to understand you. If you like the 'fake' look, I don't get it, but I also don't get why you shouldn't indulge in that if that's who you are. You sound a bit self obsessed, but most of us are. Your obsession with yourself seems to be focused on a very particular appearance you covet. I dunno. This is a head scratcher for me. Obsessions can be tyrannical. Lets hope that yours doesn't get out of line.

so many guys will say that they like a 'natural girl' but chances are she did a lot of work to look like that! like dolly parton says 'it took a lot of money to look this cheap'. and guys like when you dress revealing obviously!

anyways where i come from hair nails and tan is completly normal and they even dress very revelaing but are not sluts..its not slutty at all to want to look good... and guys do appreciate it.

i do the same although i wouldnt say i want to look 'fake' , i just want to enhance my natural beauty.

besides dont pornstars try to look the best they can? i mean if it was ugly they wouldnt get as many views or whatever...i guess it just sounds bad when you say it but when guys actually see it they love it

You seem like somebody who was made fun of for looking the way they do when they were younger... Look. In 7th grade, I dyed my hair blonde, started tanning, got my nails done, and constantly tried to make myself into a little barbie doll. I attracted plenty of boys, but they didn't care a whit about me. And yet... That whole time, all I wanted to do was kill myself and end my pitiful existence. Be who you are. Even if it means you have to become a pale, redheaded, girl that wears tophats and elf ears to school, why the hell shouldn't it make you happy?

its better than being natural and looking like the masses, with nothing special.

Getting your nails done is bad for your nails. The glue weakens the enamel. Extensions damage the roots of your hair. Tanning causes aging and cancer. Collagen injections lose their shape over time. None of this qualifies as "taking care of yourself." Neither does wearing revealing clothing. What does dressing like a skank have to do with taking care of yourself? Everyone loves to look sexy- of course, duh! But at the end of the night, you have to take that makeup off. Wouldn't you rather your hair and skin be naturally beautiful and stay that way, than appear beautiful for a minute but then end up looking like hell because you're as over-processed as bologna? I went to cosmetology school, and I'm beautiful; I appreciate hygiene and grooming and primping. What you're doing is unhealthy and unnatural.

Wow some of these comments are really mean, what I'm saying is before going that route maybe listen to your bf he just seems like he wants you to look like YOU and wants you for himself cause you're his baby

I'm just comment on here one more time. Girls that try to look like fake whores, they:

1. Do not look unusual or stand out at all
2. Send out a message of "I'm a whore"
3. Send out a message of "I'm a dumbass"
4. Send out a message of "I'm a bitch"

And if you want to blend in, and look like a dumb whore bitch, go right ahead.

Its ok to take care of yourself. But it seems you're going a little overboard. Im sure you look fine naturally. Obviously your boyfriend likes you the way you are, maybe try cutting back on all the fake stuff for a bit.

I'll tap that

You shouldnt be with someone who tries to change things about yourself things you dont want to change. Nor should anyone get used to that sort of relationship