Is it normal i love someone?

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Hello
I am a married women and a mother. I love someone these days, I love my husband but more like a father or guardian or some sort of protector. I never loved anyone before my marriage and never thought I would find my love after marriage. It's a pure love what I feel for him we both are like made for each other in all the ways. Everything is same his character is some times like me and ofcourse sometimes his character covers my limitations and mine his. We love like anything else and my husband also knows a bit about it but not completely. Even our family know about our friendship and affection but they do not have a full fledged information about this. He came to my life one day when I was missing someone who is my real life, now I hardly bother about my life. I can not stay away from my husband and kid as well and can't be without him....

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  • Kutieadb
    12 years ago

    Think of your kids, that's is my only advice. They need you to be focused on them. Not all the time of course and you deserve to have a life but please be there for them.

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  • ummm?
    12 years ago

    If u are 100% sure that this man u love is you
    r soulmate get a divorce and i say that because 1) this us unfair and tragic for you, him,and your husband .2)because your husband. Can find fufillment and hapiness again with his real soulmate .the qualities you listed were clearly not that of somebody in love."fatherly really? Kinda sad ,i think u shud tell the whole truth not tryna be harsh but I'm sure u dont want to be miserable or bittr ur whole life drownding inwat ifs.
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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Note, if your decision is to go with this other 'soul' mate, then you could STILL lose everything including him.

    You might need to weigh things up a lot more.
    Your semi-confused state is not the time to make adultery decisions.

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    At some point you are going to have to make a decision or risk loosing everything.

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    • Mayflower
      12 years ago

      Yes I know..

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      • joybird
        12 years ago

        What does this mean?

        "He came to my life one day when I was missing someone who is my real life, now I hardly bother about my life. I can not stay away from my husband and kid as well and can't be without him...."

        Does it mean you met him while missing your last lover?! And, have you left your family for him?

        How long have you known this sould mate?

        I have known mine since 1996 and we still feel the same while our children go on growing up. If this is some 'recent' soul-mate within the past 3 years, you need to test it over time before you destroy your family life!!

        If he's not really the one for you, you should find out after 3-6 years! Wait and see!!

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  • People2016
    7 years ago

    marriage is a bond and a promise not only to your partner but to yourself. Stay above basic animal instinct and either make it work with your partner, or seperate. Tough choice but the high road is always a bit tougher to traverse

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    It sucks to find your soul mate after you get married to someone else :o(

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    • Mayflower
      12 years ago

      It's really sad..

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      • SEWnanist23
        7 years ago

        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pwgYhy9XTTY

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