Is it normal i love putting people in their place?
I find it incredibly satisfying. And then I find it incredibly annoying when they don't know their place. I feel like its my job to put them in their place because I feel like I am a pretty rational person. I can't let someone move on without letting them know where they stand. So once I let them know, we can move on. They don't have to change or I don't feel like changing them unless they were my close friends or partner and I want them to change for the better. But as for the general, I just want them to know where they stand especially in a certain situation. If you're being the annoying one in the group, I'm going to tell you or show you. If you're being the demanding one, I'm going to let you know. If you're stubborn, I'm going to let you know. If you're conceited, I'm going to let you know. It just bothers me for someone to think they can move on being this ridiculous person. And that saying where "treat people like you want to be treated" yes. That goes. I like it when people let me know where I stand. If they're saying I am talking too much, I'll be like okay. If someone tells me I'm acting like a child or something, okay. I like to know where I stand with everybody, don't you guys? When there are completely false accusations of me though, that's a whole different story. Sometimes I'll point out something of a person and everyone else agrees but they put it aside as if they are focusing on the positive side instead. So maybe I just focus on their negative side more and I should stop. But I can't! Like I said I can't let them go thinking its okay to continue life and not know where they stand. Someone needs to lay it down and I'm usually that person. I do it to get it through their head but most of all, because it satisfies me like eating when you're starving.