Is it normal i love a gay guy and believe can change for me?

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Well,this is how it goes,i am a girl who became friends with this irresistible,charming,cute guy from around 2 years,and it is when i knew he is gay that we became closer and best friends coz i assumed i will never fall in love with someone gay..and how stupid of me!!He told me i am his soul mate and if he was straight he will love me forever till death do as apart,he looks at me in a way i believe he is so in love with me,he gets jealous from boys approaching,he acts as a straight guy around me for god's sake!!But,i go with him to gay places,know his ex-boyfriends,we tell each other everything..we are very close..as if there is a strong bond or connection..he totally understands me and i do too.We even talk dirty most of the time and joke around about having sex.What is bothering me is that he is not gay in looks or acts at all.He even admitted that to me once.On the contrary he is so manly,and that is what i love about him.I know i am the only girl he has feelings for,i am 100% sure if that,he already said that indirectly to me.So,now we are not close as before anymore and he says the reason is because i told him i love him(because i couldn't keep it in anymore) and he can't love me back the way i want!!But guys,i am so in love with him!!i just can't be in a relationship with another guy coz i keep comparing..and i can't imagine living my life with someone else after i found my perfect match!!i need a solution,,if it is only sexual desire he has about being gay,,can there be a cure??(though he refuses to change and other times he says he wants to try something with a girl(note he had several relationships and now single and says all he wants is friendship and sex only)..So,maybe he wants sex with me?Will that solve anything?i need to know the solution please help!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    There is no cure for being gay. If he's really like that, he's probably bisexual instead but if he's gay, he's gay, no one, not you, not science, not religion is going to change that.

    And asking for a cure kinda makes it sound like it's a disease, it isn't. The solution is to get over him and keep him as your bgf (Best gay friend).

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    either he was leading you on.. or trying to convince himself

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