Is it normal i lost my virginity before i had my first kiss??

So let me explain. Lol. I hung out with a friend a couple weeks ago, we had a little to drink, then we started talking about how we hadn't had sex in a while.. Well HE hadn't had sex in a while, but I didn't want to admit I was a virgin and worst of all, never even really kissed anyone yet. So I came up with the idea we have sex but with the Julia Roberts rule, no kissing on the lips. Call me weird or dumb, but seriously I really wanted to have sex.. Not because it would be with him, though I admit that was a bonus, but because I was a 20 year old virgin. A girl's got needs. I'm only human. Anyway, I thought the no kissing rule was just a good idea to keep it simple and not make it too much of an emotional thing for us. We did it a few times, believe it or not, and still no kiss.

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  • Anime7

    As long as you don't regret it and you guys used protection I don't see the problem.

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  • You made a rule. If it's a rule that means he can have sex with you, he'll keep it until death. It's normal.

    If you give him the signs you want to kiss, he's likely to still keep the rule.

    If you kiss him, though. That changes everything.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    I think kissing was the first thing that gave me any pleasure in my lady parts. Before then, I couldn't even imagine having sex. So, though this is a foreign concept to me, I don't knock you for it.

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  • handsignals

    not if your a mexican street hooker.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Great.

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