Is it normal i lose interest after sex?

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I am a young female. I don't think I want a boyfriend, but sometimes I miss having a relationship and feel lonely.
For about 8 months now, whenever I have had sex with someone, I lose interest straight away. Even sometimes immediately after the deed is done. I just want them to get out of my bed and leave.
I did have a one night stand last month and I did really like him but he didn't want to see me again. This is the only instance where I was interested in him after sex.
And now I have even started getting bored of sex. I'm bored of all the one night stands and then losing interest in them. It is overall, boring.
Is this all normal?

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64% Normal
Based on 140 votes (90 yes)
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  • 62704
    11 years ago

    That is NOT normal! D: It's sad!

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    I'll have sex with you. I'm terrific in bed and you'll want to cuddle the shit out of me afterwards. True story.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Awwh lets do it babe!

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  • EAT_IT
    11 years ago

    Travel the world as a love goddess.

    I'm going to be a travelling chef in my kitchen from one end to the other.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    You are a girl so of course you are confused lol. I am just kidding. I have noticed that a good majority of girls that I know are the same way. If they have a chance to get with a good guy, they pass up the opportunity or get bored of him. If the guy does not want anything to do with them, the girl gets clingy. Stop having one night stands and try getting to know the guy first before you just give out the good to someone who may not want anything else from you except the sex. I put it is normal because girls are usually more prone to being in this situation.

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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    Might get yourself checked. I'm done.

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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    Ur post says straight away sometimes immediately and that you want them to leave right away and your even getting tired of all the one night stands. And starting to getting tired of sex. Might I ask how many dudes uve been with?? U might get urself checked. I'm not trying to be mean. But eww. That's almost saying that your havin sex with them to see whether you like them or not. If u keep doing this your going to stumble across a guy that u actually like and he's goin to play u like u seem to be playin everyone else. Maybe that dude u liked and kind of liked u heard about ur one night stands and wanting them to leave after you get done. And he figured he was just another penis. like I said I'm really not trying to be mean!!!! u asked if it was normal I'm saying no and tellin you way!!! Once a hoe always a hoe. Bye!!

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    • noitsdefinitelynot
      11 years ago

      I'm going to go out on a limb and say you are too young to be on this site. Learn to spell also, you'll never emerge from you're trailer park with a brain like that-or lack there of.

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      • Wethoodielover
        11 years ago

        ''Learn to spell also, you'll never emerge from you're trailer park''

        seems legit

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        • noitsdefinitelynot
          11 years ago

          touche.

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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    You have to have sex with every guy before you start thinking about whether your interested in him......? wow. Low self esteem much? Might I suggest a consular!!? Or a close friend to talk to.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      ...No. My post reads that I lose interest. The word lose implies I had interest in the first place, but then lost it.

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  • spidercrowblaze18762
    11 years ago

    Baby, chill, you should have a lot of patience during such conditions...

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  • JMont
    11 years ago

    if you open your legs right away to any good looking guy that walks your way you'll never meet someone worth while. A lot of guys look at girls in two ways: 1)easy sex 2)maybe something more. Open your legs to early and you automatically become the short-term number 1. What's to early? depends. Anything less than a couple weeks to a month is to short, in my opinion.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yeah it happens.

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