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when I dress and dont dress very girly or own alot of chick cloth I dont care when poeple say i look like a dude .
It doesnt it bothers them and I have to hear about it , so thats the problem than I feel bad becuase I dont care what they think and I believe maybe I should and I dont so its a vicous cycle , I dont know myheart feels no care for things , but my knolledge of sociol standings and behavior leaves me wondering if it has somehow disrespected or dishonered my family somehow " . If that makes sense
Kind of... I'm guessing you're still pretty young... I know most people seem to put a lot of emphasis on appearance such as fitting gender roles, but it really isn't too important, what are people saying to you about it?? If they're only saying "you look like a man" you should ask "you got a problem with that?"
Perfectly normal. I'm the same way. Not lesbian or anything, but I prefer vys clothes over girls because they are comfier, cheaper, n less of a hassle. Of course I do my hair and makeup like most girls do, usually pulling my hair into a ponytail and throwing some mascara and eye liner on, but after that, It's completely normal. I don't care what other people think. Does It really matter? My friends accept me, my family accepts me, even my boyfriend accepts it. He tastes me for wearing my cousins hand me downs, but he understands. It's perfectly normal, no big deal.
I'm very androgynous and most of what I wear is from the men's department. I used to care about what others said, but somewhere I realized that I shouldn't give a flying fuck about what they say. Why change myself to make them happy if it'll only make me sad?
It's normal:)
Well if you're happy with yourself, it doesn't matter! Don't let anyone else change you. Just do whatever you feel comfortable with.
It's not going to get you a boyfriend if that's what you're worried about
I think it is great, anytime someone can be comfortable in their own skin and happy with their appearance! That goes a long way of making that person desirable and fun to be with.
The standard of English on the polls / questions of this website has gone way down in the last few days haha
Anyway, most girls don't want to look like guys, so no it's not normal to not care. However, if you don't care, it doesn't matter.
Yeah; same here. I'm mostly a tom boy. It's so much easier anyway then trying to get all fememine and waste a lot of time. I think dressing feminine is a "stereotype". Plus, I feel a lot better when I where my tom boy stuff, anyway. It also fits my personality, and I'm not a lesbian.
People tend to think if you're not feminine then automatically you are masculine. I like the androgynous look. It's very hot.
WEll its like I have that versitiel look were if you change hiar and cloth depending determines weather thier a boy or a girl , kindve like with really young children were you can't always tell unless they have a dress or pants .so depending on how i style my hiar or wear my cloth is the most distguishing thing .
One of my friends older sister has the same appearance. Although, she's a really awesome person. As long as you're happy wit how you look, screw what everyone else says.
Same problem. People say I look like a man. Oh, wait.. I am a man! Moving on...
neh! it's normal I got my hair cut realy short in to a boy- cut and some of my friends say i look like a lesbian, I don't care because my boyfriend thinks it's cute :3
I don't dress girly , i think my friends have only seen me twice in a dress in the past 3 years I do like jewerly but because ihave 3 ear peircings and both my thumb-webbs peircied. I don't own a single pair of high heels.
ewwwww what are you saying im grose ? you never even met me or are you saying anyone who doesnt look like a supermodel is grose ?
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