Is it normal i like young girls

Im 20 I dont consider myself a pedo but I am attracted to girls that are 10-28. I dont see my self ever making the effort to have sex with anyone under 16. I do connect with them and when I do its like I dont understand why it would be wrong to do anything just because the majority of people say its wrong. What would be the difference of a 12yo boy and girl dating and a 12 y/o girl and a 20y/o guy? People say maturity but ive met 11y/o that where more mature and had more common sense than most adults. Is it possible since I was attracted to them at a young age I never grew out of it? I just find my self checking them out in the store and stuff there adorable. I see it as completely harmless. Any insight would be appreciated thanks :)

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  • disthing

    It's probably much more common than we know, since it's something many wouldn't admit to.

    However, laws of consent exist to protect children. The fact is, when you're 10 years old, you really don't have sufficient understanding of the world, of your body, of your sexuality, to be able to consent to a sexual relationship. You also lack the emotional maturity to differentiate between types of 'love', and it'd be very easy for a much older person to manipulate a child into doing things they will later regret, that they may not want to do, that might have a negative impact upon them in later life.

    This is the mainstream opinion of the majority of the world. Just be happy you aren't exclusively attracted to young girls, so you can still have a normal and fulfilling relationship.

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    • iamre321

      Really mature reply.
      Check out my question:

      There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.

      To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.

      There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..

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  • GreyWulfen

    I think it's normal.

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  • funfinder707

    It's normal attraction. The same religious fucks who decided that nobody should be are the ones most guilty of it. We are animals. Plain and simple. Our only true purpose in life is to breed, and to do so immediately upon reaching the ability to do so. Men and women still release hormones and feramones at those very young ages that produce urges we have been told are wrong and sick. Fuck all of you. If she's old enough to bleed, she's old enough to breed. I would not risk jail to do it though. Then again Mexico age of consent is 14, so who's up for a road trip?

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    • Likeitall

      I'm in I have happily legally fucked real young girls oversees. Nothing like barley fiting into a ten yer olds ass

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      • iamre321

        Damn really? What's your email? Lets chat.
        Check out my question:

        There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.

        To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.

        There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..

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  • alittleconfused

    Have you read Lolita?

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  • stickhard

    I am a sicko I guess. Truth is I love young girls, I would love to sleep with one nude, but no sex until I know she's ready for it, it would be hard though I love the look of their sweet young bodies. Hell the ad fags think nothing of parading sweet young half naked young bodies in front of us and that's ok. Just pimp them for their products put their sweet young sexuality on display for the almighty dollars. Show of young preteens and teens dress in skimpy costumes and we are supposed to not react to this sexual display. Just a bunch of hipocrite, hell yes I get turned on by them, all men do. Yes it's natural unless your dead hell yes I'd love to sleep with a sweet young girl and fall head over heels for her. say it's wrong if you but to me it's just how nature works.

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    • iamre321

      Dang, lets chat you got an email?
      Check out my question:

      There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.

      To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.

      There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..

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  • berkano

    Consent? Matureity?
    There are 14 olds having sex, using protection.
    35 year olds having sex, and ( unplanned ) pregnancys.
    Force is wrong. Regardless of age.
    If a young girl says yes, who is john law to say she was to young?
    Yea, girls magically mature the day they turn 18.
    What a joke.
    The law is. A farce, But, its the law.
    Get hard on over jailbait, shoot your wad in legal skanks.
    Not pretty, but it works.

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    • iamre321

      Really mature reply.
      Check out my question:

      There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.

      To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.

      There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..

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  • Eas1206

    I think the attraction is normal, but part of being an adult is knowing what's right and wrong and where to draw the line...
    Whatever you found attractive at that young age is not likely to change. It's the same with music; whatever you were listening to when you first started getting laid will always be cool to you haha!

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  • kittykat9930

    A lot of young girls these days look older than their age so it always confuses me of their age! Seems pretty harmless to think they're cute as long as you don't act on it.

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  • By perusing this site one could easily get the idea that it's normal. Then again, I think it depends on how you define "normal."

    The bottom line is that just so long as it's nonsexual, then there's not anything inherently wrong with it. And it's indeed my opinion that if pedophiles truly "love" kids (look up the etymology of the word "pedophile"), then they would do what they can to focus that energy into a positive force for the mutual benefit of all parties involved.

    What I'm saying is that I'm pretty sure kids don't need, or want, to be sexually approached by adults. What they DO need is friendship and guidance. Every self-described "child lover" should bare that in mind. You can't choose your orientation. You CAN choose what you do with it.

    On a side note, what I find striking is the fact that seemingly all admitted pedophiles on this site express an affinity for girls - and girls exclusively. It kind of makes one wonder about all these stories we hear about groups like "NAMbLA," Catholic priests, and the like. Because wherever those types are, they sure as hell aren't here.

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    • iamre321

      Really mature reply.
      Check out my question:

      There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.

      To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.

      There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..

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      • It's difficult to discern at which point a sexual or romantic interest goes from being abnormal to normal; we mustn't forget that a great deal of our views on this issue are shapes largely by societal norms and legislation. Regardless, the overwhelming majority of people, including myself, agree that a certain line must be distinctly drawn. So long as you're not sexually approaching kids, it would be quite the stretch to assume that you're doing anything wrong.

        However, it must be kept in mind that my view on this subject is merely a rational one - one that is NOT held by a large percentage of society. In fact, I can tell you from firsthand experience that merely having a major soft-spot for kids is often enough to make you a target, even if you never provide any indication that your interest is anything other than completely innocent.

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  • thegypsysailor

    It wasn't too long ago that a girl was married off after her first period, about 12 years old, generally. Of course few lived beyond 45 in those days and life was considerably harder.

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  • This isn't normal at all. I have always wondered how sex offenders started out. I guess this post seems to satisfy a bit of my curiosity about that. Checking out ten and twelve year old girls and thinking there is nothing wrong about dating them is not normal at all.

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    • randomthoughts

      Thank god there are some sane people on this site and in the world like yourself, I was beginning to wonder where they all went to.

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      • You judged me too soon. ***ejaculates prematurely into an imaginary sock

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        • randomthoughts

          why ruin it for yourself man.

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          • Ruin what? Reputation online? **blows load with fierce force.

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    • tripw7

      You are correct! It is not normal. I have a family member that is 11 going on 16. She seems to know everything about life however I don't think she has a clue about what to expect with sex. Hope it doesn't happen before she is much much older. (I college would probably be ok....)

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      • Yeah. People like this poster take advantage of how young girls are naive. If poster hasn't yet I am sure he has thought about it. Hopefully he seeks help or gets chemically castrated before he does any permanent damage.

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  • If she's under 12 then you are a pedo.

    Do the math, you pedo.

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    • shuggy-chan

      If I can count her age on my fingers the I don't need math do I?

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      • Well if the starting point is ten years and a pedo likes those under twelve years, and you don't consider yourself a pedo, then clearly you need the math done for you.

        Because your fingers aren't helping much, and children you shouldn't touch. Mr shuggy-chan the pedo man.

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        • shuggy-chan

          hmmmmm your right bear don't have finger any way, they have claws, I should count them ᶘ ᵒᴥᵒᶅ

          btw im not the OP

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          • I know.

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  • iamre321

    Considered not as normal nowadays by society, but its pretty common check out my question:

    There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.

    To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.

    There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...

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    • iamre321

      You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..

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  • funlovingbitch

    I live not far from Liverpool England and talking about teenage pregnancy a couple of years ago a12you girl gave birth the father was11yrs old notified nowadays is normal because of the internet

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  • gavnz2016

    Attracted by young girls cunnies - always imagine kissing their lipss... crazy, i know

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  • mmiicc

    My wife is 35 years old 11opounds 34b boobs would you like to have sex with her. Just let me know she can wear a school uniform for you you can undress her play with her boobs suck on them

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    • killertenchi

      dont no about him but if ur bein for real i will

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  • HelloMotto7

    Um not normal.

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  • flyingfromtheearth

    i think it's fine if you like younger girls but if you are past 6-8 years then them, you shouldent be going there.....

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  • tuvwxyz

    Heck control your hormones. These are kids understand kids. Of course youth is sexy and age is not, its human nature to want youth but if they are kids, let them grow up without sexual harrasment. They all ready have a bunch of strikes against them in this sick proverted world. And i could kick any parent that sends thier volnerable child to school with shorts already half way up their ass crack. Why, whats the purpose of it, to get pregnant early? And we wonder why more and more kids are abducted or raped. Ok just look then but please keep your dick in your pants and keep the children innocent

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  • Darthtatersalad

    Do to many laws the stats may be obscured but many people are attracted to younger aged people. While it is wrong for such young people to have sex do to the fact they do not have sufficient understanding of themselves or the world we treat people with pedophilic urges as if they are willingly and knowingly deciding to do these things.

    The fact of the matter is pedophilic urges are like being homo or bisexual it is not something controllable and instead of persecuting them we should help them as often times such urges can be due to mental or emotional traumas.

    Some people have even willingly turned themselves in to prevent themselves from acting on their urges only to be turned away and when they do act on them they are persecuted and are sent to rot in a cell where they will most likely die as such crimes are not looked upon in a good light by even some of the most hardened criminals.

    I believe that if we treated and helped people with pedophilic urges before they act or even afterwards during their prison time that it would reduce such crimes by a drastic percentage.

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  • paulywalnuts

    how do you know how old they are? or you're looking and you know its wrong. you're ill. get on some ant-depressants to kill your libido

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  • Any theories as to why my earlier comment was hidden?

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  • KatieLiz

    NOPE.

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  • MacG

    You should consider therapy.

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  • ThatChick28

    Eh...natural. But u shouldn't...check them out. That's just creepy as hell and one day some little girl's dad is gonna kick ur face in o.0

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  • BlueLove

    Anyone one under 18 is too young for you. It's not right, kids are easily manipulated. It's a good thing you are attracted to women as well. Remember it's illegal so stick to the law and stop gawking at girls too young for you.

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    • stickhard

      The real reason children are so easily manipulated is because we hide their natural sexuality we chastise them for it we refuse to educate them in the feelings they are feeling naturally, if we removed the social issues involved against it we would have have a lot less freaks and wierdos like me out there wanting to do what is truly the natural order of things

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      • 53739

        You are absolutely correct the

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    • killertenchi

      not in the uk lol 16 n there thinkin of dropin it to 15 lol

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      • stickhard

        Great I'd love to move there.

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