Is it normal i like to hurt women that like me? or that i like?

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This is for sincere readers - someone whos not scanning isitnormal for posts to BASH the OP. I GIVES NO FCKS for BASH comments. I'm asking for your HELP you know.... =)

Anyways "fuck you loser"......yeah I know....

I was cheated on in the past. Felt REALLY shit afterwards because I was such a simp "NICE" guy at the time AND I knewww this bitch was NOT trustworthy and I STILLL made her my gf.anyway. Lost alot of self confidence ( and sexual confidence she had made me feel while with her)
I was gonna downplay this fist time I typed this out - but yes I was bitter about it. I honestly still am.

I was soo hurt by this I sorta went on a vengeance journey of just sleeping around with girls at house parties and clubbing and acting like as BIG of a PRICK/DOUCHE to women I can.

Frm there I just decided all women were sluts and cheaters. And if I get cheated on again I will have cheated first.

Sooo...
I cheated on all my girlfriends I had since then. Deliberately.
And some found out and I wanted them to all feel really bad/like I don't give a shit. And like they would lose an ammaaazzziinnngggggg guy if they left me,even though looking back-Once a girl go home w/ me while her "friend" was calling her, when she left I checked her facebook and saw she had a boyfriend with te same name as the guy who was calling her. that really fucked my head up for weeks.

I fuck with girls who show interest in me - like I pretend to be REALLLY into them - and then I just go and hookup with other girls in front of them.
Truth is, I'm bitter. Yep. Im bitter I got cheated on by my first HOT gf and I hate that girls are readily soo sexual with guys they like.
I don't think I will ever find a girl who I can marry and settle down w/ because women are soo horny and I trust NO1. She'll prob cheat while I'm at work or something lool.(this is a genuine fear being cheated on while married)

Im saying this not to troll but to ask how can I stop?
Its like I love women in a sexual way.....I think....but I HATE you also.....
Women are amazing but sex and relationships have tainted my WHOLE perception of male-female interaction. HELP. Its got to the point I feel patronized at any women who even ACTS flaky with me and will cut off communication w/ her.
My head is fucked

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  • scullyfbi
    9 years ago

    You won't find solutions here.

    Really go to a clinic and find a therapist to talk about this. Because at least you do know the trouble is within you. But you also have found you can't fix it yourself, that's why you wrote here.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    You need to take a break from sex and dating.

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    I like how you got used once so in your head it justified your behavior to other women... such failed logic here. You dont know who will cheet and who wont in the beginning of a relationship...you probably hurt some really nice girls who would have never cheered on you.

    Your behavior is quite destructive ...not just for the girls but for yourself as well. You will never find a girl to settle down with because you will just destroy the relationship no matter how great that girl is.

    I was also cheeted on in HS by a guy I went out with for a year...he cheeted on me within about a month of our relationship with a friend...I decided to forgive them both...but then he ended up cheeting again with another girl. I left him....
    I decided from that moment I would never forgive another guy for cheeting... I would leave them right away no looking back.
    I also poured milk in his gas tank...

    I would never cheet i feel it is discusting behavior...I would never want to put someone threw that much pain and heart break because I know how bad it feels.

    Do you see the difference between my decision and yours? Mine was to never let myself be walked on or taken advantage of by a cheeter....yours was to hurt as many women as you could.
    You need to first let go of your past...remember it....learn from it...but let it go. Nothing can change the past and this distructive behavior will never help you feel better... if anything you are letting that girl hurt you over and over as you sacrifice your own happyness.

    You probably need more help then I can offer perhaps a theripist to talk to and sort out all your issues.
    just because one person cheeted on you does not meen everyone is a cheeter.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      You've tried to make it sound smaller than it is for me.

      You didn't experience what I did, she cheated w/ a friend. Meanwhile a separate group of friends MOCKED and Be-litted me for being a simp and even making her a girlfriend.
      + no offence but your a girl soo i reckon your less likely to care much because attractive girls get approached all the time -- kinda makes dating easier. (MORE OPTIONS)
      so imagine YOU who probably gets approached by all types of men getting cheated on vs me - who has to force myself to approach chicks lool. Then to get a HOT one. And then to be cheated on and mocked about it. I cant punch her in the face to get my anger out like women can. I cant go fuck up her property/car. Or throw a drink on her.....no I have to "get over it".
      Cheating was how I got over it. Im just not over cheating yet. I didnt decide to "Hurt" women thats just my understanding of it now, I simply decided to not walked on by going in front. (so to speak)
      Anyways Its not easy to just "let it go" when its been re-inforced by sexual activities I've had since.i.e. slutty party girls.

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      • reminiscent
        9 years ago

        -true I didnt experiance exactly what you did...you have now provided more information then originally. But if you would refure to my first post that I have been cheeted on once...

        -this statement is highly sexist. What makes you think I dont care? I do care about your problem...I do care about what was done to you. I do not think two wrongs make a right. Im not sure if you noticed my profile picture I know it might be hard to tell with my makeup ...im cute im not bomb shell sexy... also dating wasnt a bunch of guys throwing themselves at me...seriously?
        Cheeting to me would still be just as devastating...I am a highly loyal person. Im not sure why you think that there would be a difference in feelings.

        -no man or woman should punch the other sex...violance is wrong for ether sex. You could have messed up her car...I went in the dead of night and did it...he never knew...however I dont recommend it...it was wrong of me to do.

        -again two wrongs dont make a right...you hurt people who never did anything to you. Taking out revenge on others that were never involved is wrong...I getting cheeted on is no excuse to purposefully hurt others.

        -i will suggest a theripist again for you...to help you get over your feelings. Because you do need to let it go. As I said before your letting this girl who cheeted on you still control and hurt you.

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  • stankpussy
    9 years ago

    i love hitting women

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