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I have a really tense relationship with my own father who hasn’t been around for a lot of my life... is that why I’m attracted to much older men? Am I looking for a kind of relationship that I never had with my dad?
A lot of younger women are attracted to older men. Can't tell you how many younger hostesses or server girls at the sports bar I go to are into older guys, including myself on occasion. While I don't know if their interest is short-term or not, will say most are very sexual and don't mind the guys treating them well and using them for sex (sugar daddies).
I gave a rid home to one girl one evening. Very cute, little hottie, young, with a "wrong side of the tracks" look about her. Sexy as hell, though. She thanked me for the ride several times, then, at a red light, climbed onto my lap and started kissing and feeling me, sinking her manicured nails into my chest and crotch. Kept telling me how attracted to me she was, I could have her, and once we got home (hers), wanted me to take her.
Yes, I enjoyed the attention and little bit of messing around with her in my car, but, the better part of my brain reminded me how young she was, and, hot little body or not, I just couldn't have sex with her. Would feel like I was with one of my niece's friends..Lot of guys wouldn't have made that decision. At least, not with her.
Maybe but I wouldn't fret too much not an uncommon fantasy to be with someone older
No, it's not. Men who take advantage of this are vile people. I suggest going to therapy and not pursuing older men.
Where your dad? Working? You should contact him if you miss your father. Its not a good thing to took someone that have a same age as your father and make it be your dad. Always remember your dad, you can video call him if you miss your dad. I feel sorry for you, I know your feeling when you miss your dad.