Is it normal i like making people suffer with the silent treatment

Ever since I remember I always give my friends some members of my family (only cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews) the silent treatment which will last for years to eternity. If a person does me wrong like extreme betrayal, ungratefulness I ignore them forever. Change my number email address, use a fake name on facebook so they cant track me down. Im a really generous thoughtful person who is not used to many friends or being around too many people. Now I live alone like a hermit because I never forgave a friend who tried to steal my rich boyfriend and tried to give him to her 17 year old daughter. I don't mind being lonely than with being with scheming evil people. Im paranoid about people now and I feel old like I am having a mid-life crises. I just turned 21. My friends usually range from 30-60

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Comments ( 12 )
  • Frosties

    You should superglue your lips together and inflict this terrible punishment on the whole world for eternity.

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  • chicken471bologna

    Trollolololololol

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  • assh0le

    Are you cutting them out of your life for good? Or are you just playing mind-games hoping they'll come round to your way of thinking?

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  • cutiebaby

    I was always very forgiving until I reached my late 30s. Then I started clearing certain people from my life. I am incredibly tolerant of all sorts of stuff.

    However, backstabbing and telling me lies (lies that affect my life) not innocent white lies about stuff that's none of my business is now a one-way ticket OUT of my life.

    I feel much better since I started doing this. Really evil people can't or won't change.

    But it's important to make the distinction between really evil and just a basically good human being who's going through a bad time.

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  • wigsplitz

    yeah, I agree with SpaceGhost, you're doing it wrong.

    You are hiding from people, that's not exactly the silent treatment. How exactly do they know that you're ignoring them if you're hiding from them? They probably just think your phone got cut off and you deleted your facebook, they're probably not thinking 'oh, wow, she's ignoring me'. And, you're letting them win because you're the only one whose life is being disrupted, really.

    You should try to deal with your problems in a more straightforward manner.

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  • flyingnostalgia

    Go to hell, i hate people like you.

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  • Nokiot9

    Well if people betray you why would you have them in ur life? I cut people out of my life that are toxic. Just be careful which bridges you burn because everyone makes mistakes.

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  • Allistalla

    Oh my freind use to do that to me I use to get really sad when she ignored me she was the only person I fealt so horrible when her not talking to me . Apperently it made her sad and she cut herself when we did not talk Oh I really miss her .

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  • I like how the only thing your describe your boyfriend as is "Rich" instead of describing him as just your boyfriend, or a "loving boyfriend". If that doesn't hint that you value his money more than his personality, I don't know what will.

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  • Ono

    In my experience, the silent treatment is usually a reward not a punishment.

    Oh you're not talking to me? You want me to grovel and ask what's wrong. Then you can say 'nothing!'. And then i can say no really, please, please please tell me, I just love the need to apologise for something you don't even have the maturity to discuss with me. No thanks, if you're that lame, then i'm happy I don't have to listen to you.

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  • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat

    Yeh thats showing them, pretty soon they will come back to you begging to be friends again. After all with how exceedingly strange and weird you are them being around you probably makes them feel good about themselves. You know what I mean, "well I may have my own problems, but at least I am not as fucked up as (insert your name here)" Its like the average looking girl who hangs with below average looking girls and then suddenly looks good because of the lack of comparison.

    If they dont come back, look on the bright side you could probably buy a cave real cheap with how the real estate market is today, in fact they are probably giving them away. Learning how to live off squirrels and rats probably wouldnt be that hard either.

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      This

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