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I recently realized it's impossible for me to be happy in a relationship unless the guy is an asshole. I like being mentally and physically abused. I like being afraid and feeling like I'm a piece of crap.
I think it's a shame that this is so in your life, but I think it's a very big step to realize it. Now, perhaps you can understand why you are like this and potentially what you can do so that you can be happy being dominated without being abused.
You seem a hell of a lot smarter than most on IIN, so I wish you luck. Remember, domination rather than abuse might be an good option for you.
Their were a number things that went through my head; 1) are you my ex gf? 2) masochist 3) abusive upbringing
Raised in a Catholic household? I've known a few women raised in Catholic households who harbor so much guilt because they believe everything they enjoy in life is a sin. So they want their partner to punish them. It's all really deeply subconscious, but devastating none the less.
Yeah, Jesus is our savior..... NOT!
That is absolutely terrible. I will tell you right now that you are NOT a piece of crap, you shouldn't let anyone treat you like that. Maybe its just hard for me to put myself in your situation, but I don't think that's normal.
For women that seems normal. No wonder why so many good guy's who treat them like queen end up being 'friendzoned'.
Did your parents abuse you? Were they abusive towards one another? Is there a history of substance abuse in your family?
That was exactly what I was thinking the whole time I read this. My guess is she's an extreme masochist. It's not normal, but I'll egmit you'll find people like that. Yet I don't, for some reason I feel like this is a troll post. People don't usually tell that they like to be abused you know?
Women have been loving assholes for centuries,they will forgive an asshole for beating or cheating on them but will never forgive a decent man for forgetting their birthday or not liking their cat....yeah yeah,i know all women are not like that but there enough of them to make situations like this very common.
Oh my god! I'm sorry I can't put myself in your position but that's terrible! You are not a piece of crap that should be thrown around everywhere. Like honestly I hate to say this, but you only live once, and you don't want to spend your life being afraid! Dump him, and go find a nice guy
So if a dude pulled the 'figure whore' move on you you would be cool with that?