Is it normal i lied about not being a virgin?

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I lied to my boyfriend that I am not a virgin because I just feel like if he knows he'll see me as weak and he will have control over me but now I kind of want to have sex with him and regret it but I don't want to tell him I lied about that because we've talked about it a lot and he won't trust me I even broke up with him a couple of times because he was getting sexual.

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    Being a virgin doesn't make you weak or less in control. However, if you've already broken up with him a few times over sex, you might be trying to tell yourself something -- that this guy isn't the one you want to be your first partner.

    A good relationship has trust in both directions. You shouldn't feel the need to lie to him; if you do, it's probably an indication that it isn't really meant to be.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    I'd just come out with it and tell him now. Explain you only lied so he wouldn't see you as weak and stuff :) better to get it outta the way now honestly.

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