Is it normal i havnt left

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my partner and i been together for 4 years, with 2 children, 1yr old and a 2yr old.
he had a brian op to remove a cyst, and wasnt aloud to work for 2 years, his started working now.
since not being able to work everything went down hill. he started on weed, and when ever he didnt get it took it out on me, by calling me names belittling me and breaking my stuff, most of it infront of our children. the last time this happend was a few mnths ago now, but i woke up and decided i didnt love him, but i have no family over in this state and cant get the courage to leave,
there is also another man in my life, who knows what im going thro and what i been thro and is willing to take me and my children in with him.
i think im scared of the unknown, im not sure. any advise?

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  • lease
    12 years ago

    Where do you live? If America, then next time he's violent, you need to tell the police. That's your quick and legal way out. Tell them that his medical condition has changed him - and make sure they know it's medically-based (which it is)...and that you don't feel comfortable having you or the kids around him for now. They will allow you to leave with the kids and go somewhere.....try your parent's house.

    From there, you need to contact his doctor and explain what's going on. It is then that doctor's responsibility to see that he's treated correctly, even if he has to be housed for a mental evaluation.

    With regards to long-term and/or money situations, you'd need to speak with the courts and an attorney, but I imagine they can automatically give you a chunk of his social security (which I'm assuming he's got secondary to the disability).

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    Get some advice from a lawyer

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  • Geneva5
    12 years ago

    Get the fuck out / leave the retard brain op dude to break bottles on his balls / life sucks !

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    Seriously I know how hard it is to leave but you don't have a choice! You need to leave! Do it for your kids! You can't let them be around that!

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  • MandeeMoo
    12 years ago

    we have spoken, nothing has changed, i cant just leave its against the law for me to take the children out the state without his permission, and i have no one here for me

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  • Fadina
    12 years ago

    talk to him about your sitaution if he still doesn't do anything to make stuff better then leave him do whats best for you and your kids! i wish you the best !

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