Is it normal i have no friends?

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Well, I have one friend who I meet up with. Im a very shy girl and I have a job which makes it hard to meet new people, im not really into the whole club and drinking crazy scene. I had a group of friends at school but I sacked them all of apart from one because they weren't true. At college I never made any. I've met a couple of people, one threw my sister and another at a local pool I go to but they never want to meet up. Is it normal that I just enjoy simple things, such as night classes, gym, cinema, and bowling?
And if so, how do I make friends and meet new people?
All the classes I've attended don't have my age group, and I wouldn't know how to start a conversation. I realise that to make friends it has to be at a place you go to regularly so you see them same people... but I've no idea how to talk to strangers.

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  • chained_rage
    9 years ago

    Why did one person throw your sister?

    Nobody can tell you how to talk to people and make friends because everyone is unique and have their own hurdles to get over in a social setting.
    I don't have this problem at all.. so I can't understand how crippling the feeling must be for you. Stick to online maybe? Get to know the people inside your phone or computer first.. then meet up :)

    This is probably useless advice from my part.. but yeah.

    *high five* You go girl

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  • daydreamer394
    9 years ago

    I have none and don't have a clue either. Everybody has their own friends.

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  • mlbryan44
    9 years ago

    Try sucking your friends off. Male and female. That works for me.

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