Is it normal i have no desire for socializing or friendships

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First time poster, long time lurker.

Okay so hopefully I don't rant on too much but I'm a stereotypical Canadian so I apologize in advance. I also have a horrible habit of spacing my paragraphs out so apologizes on that too.

First off I'll give some facts about myself to get a better idea of who I am
I'm 18, I'm a female, I grew up with a quite normal childhood despite me having feberal seizures and being bullied a lot. I have a job which I'm totally comfortable with, however I did dropout of HS halfway through grade 12 (Yes, ik idiotic)

After 2 months of being out of HS I found myself being COMPLETELY antisocial. The main reason i dropped out qas because I was a nervous wreck while around kids my age in a classroom environment. I'm a shy girl but in school I Atleast had a small group of friends. Now I'm down to one. That's it. Although I have quite a few online friends that I love.

Now, I've been told by tons of people that I'm gorgeous and I've been asked out a lot lately (not trying to be cocky) but I have absolutely no intention of dating and/or having sex with anyone despite having crushes. I'm a virgin and quite sexual but sex with someone just doesn't interest me at all. Also, I have zero intention of having anymore friends.. I just feel friends = drama, which is kinda true. I feel SO much comfortable being at home or going out with just my family.

So basically, I really just want to know if this is normal and am I the only one who is like this? Could I have something more than just anxiety?

(Thank you in advance to anyone who read through this and is going to comment with any sort of help)

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  • rep5
    7 years ago

    That's not antisocial just asocial. Sounds Pretty normal it's called introversion. If it doesn't bother you then I'm not sure what else you're asking here but you're not alone in this feeling if that helps any

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  • GeneralHater
    7 years ago

    It's normal to feel this way after many disappointing social experiences. I think deep down you do want to socialize more, but it's hard to open yourself up to new people when you had to deal with asshole bullies and drama in the past. You said you dropped out of school because of nervousness in the classroom environment, if it affected your life to that extent I think you should consider seeing someone about social anxiety. It will get better, you just need to meet nice people who will give you hope for humanity again.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Sounds like that's normal for you, but if it bothers you, change it

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