Is it normal i have never orgasmed during sex?

I'm a 21 year old female. I have been masturbating to orgasm since I was around 12. I became sexually active when I was 18. I have been dating my current SO for about 6 months, and he is awesome. I enjoy having sex with him, and I'm really attracted to him, but I have never orgasmed. Not once. The closest I have gotten is being on top with him fingering my clitoris at the same time. Am I too set in my own ways of masturbating to climax during sex?

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Based on 7 votes (4 yes)
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  • (s)aint

    Well, My first boyfriend stressed me out about orgasming and I didn't start to have sex the way I really want until like a year ago ( I'm 22, turning 23 btw) and it was not until I hooked up with a friend that my sex-life REALLY got going.

    So first of all, find out what turns you on. Second: I can't orgasm if I'm not rubbing myself during- it just wont work ... I also think that it's important to not feel stressed out about it. My friend almost fixed my issues and my current BF fixed everything and now Its almost a 100% guarantee that I orgasm every time I have sex! (Which, when I'm with him, is 1-2 times per day)

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