Is it normal i have an overwhelming urge to have sex with mwn?

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Ok. So I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend for over a year now and I love her more than anything and I'm going to marry her soon but she doesn't know im bisexual and I'm not going to tell her cuz I would lose her and I've never cheated on her or done anything that could make make me lose her but I have SUCH an overwhelming urge to have sex with men that my heart races sometimes really fast but I don't want to cheat on her cuz it's wrong but I feel like my hearts gonna explode soon or something if I don't get the sex with men that's on my mind every second of every day now, what do I do?? I love my girlfriend and don't want to cheat but it's so overwhelming

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  • flax
    12 years ago

    Perhaps you should use a full-stop so that people aren't out of breath reading your post.

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  • fetpetottawa
    12 years ago

    It sound's like you are experiencing bi-curious desires. This is normal and very common.

    Are you certain that your fiance would be oppose to this? Have you ever discussed this sort of thing with her? Is she open to bi sex with other women? Healthy couples explore sexual boundaries all the time. If you have to try something creative like watching porn with her with the first one being a threesome with 2 women and a man. Then have another video of 2 men and a woman. If she is not into this then you can tell her that you thought it was the same theme as the last video you watched with 2 women and 1 man. If she is into this then you have something to build from.

    Ask her if she would like to try any of this in real life. In the end you know your fiance, one would hope, and you should be able to guage what is working and not.

    To finish, sex and sexual exploration are not worth loosing a spouse over. Either sack up and do what you can to explore it with your lady's knowledge and consent, even better her participation, or leave it behind and move on.

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  • (:sweet:)
    12 years ago

    ^^I was thinking the same thing.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Perhaps you should marry a man instead.

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