Is it normal i have absolute hatred towards my mother?

I'm not sure if this will be long but I'll try and make it short. Sometimes I like my mom, sometimes I have so much hate towards her it hurts so bad. The precentage of hate to likeness to her is 95 to 5 percent. I think she doesn't like me either. Anytime I ask her for even $3 she says no yet she would give 20s and 50s to people outside like her friends and I feel so neglcted. She never wants to do anything for me at all. She's so lazy. She thinks she's the smartest person ever and she acts rich. Whatever I do or give to her isn't enough. She wanted a pandora bracelet but I don't have a job so I got her a lookalike for 28$. She hated it and said she couldn't belive I'd buy her something so cheap. Forget making her a card for her birthday because she would probably bitch as at me for giving her something worth less than 100$. She boasts to people like she's the donald trump of queens and I hate it. I get amazing grades in school yet she doesn't care at all. Its because of her I've got a temper. She raised me in an enviornment where I was yelled at, cursed at, and beaten a lot. Now most of that have stopped but I hate her because I'm scared when I'm older and have kids ill lose my td I don't want that that. I hate her for what she did to me degrading mw and making me think I'm not good enough for anything. So many nights I've cried myself to sleep because of her and wishing I could just die and leave all of this pain behind because its ovbvious she doesn't love me at all. I don't even know if any of these thoughs are normal.

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73% Normal
Based on 56 votes (41 yes)
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  • FrancoisDillinger

    I'd like to give some sort of advice detailing a path to a fairy tale relationship with your mother, but the truth is maybe she doesn't deserve it.

    You seem to be trying and although I've not heard her side i'll make a recommendation.

    People incite feelings in others. Fact.

    If she's not done anything to incite love then she does not deserve love or respect. Why give her something she's denied you?

    Sounds harsh, but the way I look at, your feelings toward someone are based on their actions (most times).

    You've tried. She's failed. She's warranted your feelings toward her. If anyone should feel bad it should be her for making someone who undoubtedly loved her, hate her.

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  • joybird

    She has taught you to be a better mother when you have kids - coz you will NEVER treat your kids the way she has treated you.

    I know - I was you many years ago.

    Realise that she hasn't grown up, and although she 'loves' you there are many family members we don't really 'like'. My mom says I am a 'bore' coz I don't think it's funny when she's laughing at someone's misfortune!

    Be your own person and realise that her opinions of you won't matter in the long run. Just be the best you can be and get out of there ASAP!!

    Good luck to you!

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  • Waffle-Don't-Die

    KILL HER!!! Stupid sadistic abusive fucking whore would you like to see how it feels mommy? Here it comes get ready TO DIE!!!!!!

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    • Nobody's impressed, nobody thinks you're cool.

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      • Waffle-Don't-Die

        Really? I think I'm very cool.. So cool that I quote it from the song down with the sickness by disturbed
        And Im so so cool & youre just jealous of my coolness

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        • Ok.

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        • richmstyga$$$$$$$

          You seem to have a very sad life

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          • Oh great. Another immature, stalking child focused on me.

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      • richmstyga$$$$$$$

        Bold

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    • richmstyga$$$$$$$

      Evil

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  • thinkingaboutit

    your mom has issues. If she can't respect you, she really doesn't respect herself. And that's the end of it. Don't take anything she says or does to you personally. Shes simply like a child, in the way that she doesn't know how and won't bring herself to learn to interact like a reasonable adult.

    keep up the good grades, and spend time with extracurriculars. This will certainly pay off and bring you the "approval" you crave and are entitled to.

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