Is it normal i have a hard time adjusting..

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My husband has two children. Despite the fact that their mother and I don't get long I try to be there for them. She however doesn't like that and sent me hate messages about staying away from them which is impossible.
Anyways, it came to a point where she had stop sending them to our home as she said to "spite"me. We have never had a decent conversation between us.Now she has a job and requires them to be here on weekends. I have no problem with that but I have a hard time adjusting and trying to nurture them because the last time I saw them they were 6 and 7 respectively, now they are 10 and 11... All grown up. I get irritated when they come around and I seriously don't know why. And advice?

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  • dirtybirdy
    6 years ago

    That's a tough situation. Are the kids being jerky towards you? If they are, it's likely from the mothers influence. Just be patient and do not try to be like a mother to them. It's their parents job to be mature in a situation like this, which will usually rub off on the kids, but apparently that isn't happening, but also keep in mind their age. Kids can be punkasses at that age..

    If possible, stay away when the kids are there, if it's not possible, talk to your man about telling his kids how to respect people.

    All in all, the bitch is jealous.

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