Is it normal i have a crush on a lesbian.

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I have a bit of a problem on my hands. I, (a male) met a girl that I almost instantly fell for. She was literally everything I hoped for in a Girl, except she is decidedly lesbian. I would love to be with her, and she said she would too, but this doesn't change the fact she would have to make a very unlikely exception to date me. I have heard stories of people that made the exception though. How do I deal with this?? Is it normal I still want to persue her?? Can I get any sort of tips?? Also, I don't want to scare her away from me completely. Thank you in advance.

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    It happens, It's happened to me. People are people, gender isnt necessarily a qualification

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  • ymii
    12 years ago

    of course its normal dumbass. its just like falling for a straight girl whos not into you. shes not a fucking alien

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Anything is worth trying. If it doesn't happen, it just isn't meant to be. You sound nice, as does she, so if nothing else I'm sure you can at least be good friends. Good luck :)

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  • Advicegiver123
    12 years ago

    Well the one thing is that it doesn't matter about gender and sexuality all that matters is that you love them and they love you, so just try to deal with it.

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  • Smy1220
    12 years ago

    Get into her house, wait until she is asleep, then give her your man meat and show her what she is missing. When you are done say Yeah cunt how did you like that shit!!!

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    • shine
      11 years ago

      that's all you need to do to get her running!

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    Maybe u like the fantasy or the idea she will turn straight for u

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  • MParker
    11 years ago

    Its my hope that one day labels will be obsolete,lesbian,gay,bisexual etc etc.Attraction rules every time.I was dating a man years ago when i met a girl at a social function and was instantly attracted to her,not "Oh wow,she's a pretty girl" but oh my ! she is sexy.That doesn't make me a lesbian,it makes me a human.Persue the girl,don't annoy her or make unwanted passes but give it a try sure.If she's attracted to you then there you have it,there's only attraction.

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