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i have a big crush on a guy and we are friends i dont kno how to tell him, i guess im shy can u guy help me on wat to say to him please
that's definitely normal.
if you're friends, you can let him know how you feel. you never know what can happen.
I will start with a conversation and try to become friends. when he gets comfortable and get that trust I will say "Im hungry you want to joined me".. but don't tell him right away your going to scared him just ask him what do you think about me? whatever he teolls you from their your make your decision.
if he tells you: like a friend= like a friend no more
if he tells you: I think your a wonderful girl and I like the you are= GO FOR HIM (green light)
The mistake would be not telling him, for it's what we don't do that we regret the most. Drop hints, inquire about his likes & dislikes, make him feel comfortable that he may come to you for anything(money shouldn't be one of those factors unless for a reasonable purpose). Be his biggest fan, by keeping a balanced approach.
I know exactly how you feel. I have the same problem. Its kind of easier giving someone advice, but its harder to take your own. So i guess I'm giving myself advice. Tell him step by step, and tell him you understand if he doesn't like you like that. But maybe, he likes you too and has the same problem.
before you make a move, think about your friendship with this guy. its a good idea to be 100%% positive you MUST be with him or end the friendship before you tell him, as telling him could very well end the friendship.
the alternative? have a party, get drunk, hit on him hard. If he takes the bait, great! if he doesn't, just say you were drunk :X
Normally speaking, if he was interested he might already be hinting/dropping clues, but people are different, is he shy?
invite him out somewhere, drinks, take away, cinema etc and break it down to him:/